My boyfriend act cold and distant, and this killing me?

[sabah66]

My boyfriend is introvert and unavailable emotionally , he’s rarely when he shows emotions , sometimes he’s cold and sometimes hot , he used to call me every night after he’s coming back from work, yesterday he didn’t call me because, he was with his best friend (male), and today he didn’t text me at all until the night he called me and we talk like 40 min then he Line cutting because he’s tired, I told him that I want to talk more but he ignored me, I’m really upset , I don’t know what to do, I think he’s taking me for granted , any help

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to have open and honest communication with your boyfriend about your feelings. Try to have a calm and non-confrontational conversation with him to express how his behavior is affecting you and discuss your needs and expectations in the relationship. It's possible that he may not be aware of how his actions are making you feel. Understanding each other's perspectives can help you work through this together.

[bowenw]

I suggest seeing what happens over the next few weeks so you will know if this was a onetime thing because he was busy, or if it is you.

[Billlewis]

Tell him you want to have a face to face conversation about this immediately.