Do men ever think, man I’m hurting her?

[Anonymous]

No we don’t

Yes we do, we just don’t care about yous.

[SotiCoto]

Your poll options stink of self-pity.

Listen... if you're being hurt by a guy, the first step would be confronting him about it... rather than complaining about it on the Internet.
Now assuming you have spoken to him about it, his reaction should tell you everything you need to know. For instance, if his initial reaction is to apologise without asking for details then he is timid and pathetic. If his reaction is to deny it then he is controlling and manipulative. etc. The best reaction would probably be if he acknowledges what you've said and suggests he will account for that better in future.

[Lionman95]

Yes we do but instead of telling her and ask how to improve the situation guys think they have to find a way to change that or ignore it that feeling because admitting it would make it worse. So they try to find ways to improve the situation on their own and if they can´t they break up or end contact instead of trying to work it with her.

[Anonymous]

I honestly think they do at least in passing. But it just depends on the person, some actually feel bad while some don’t.

[IlllllIll]

Usually he asks. He became a master at reading the micro expressions of my face.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why would that randomly go through our head? Hurting physically? Emotionally? What are you on about?

[Saiesh30]

I personally do but I know many don't. Just as with women. Things like these goes both ways. It's not a gender specific thing.

[glennos89]

It depends on the person not the gender itself. Woman who pick the wrong dudes everytime think all guys are the same. Because obviously we aren't!!!

[Joshydavid25]

I think I've been hurt more times than I hurt.. TBH..

[Sunnybeach123]

I try to be very careful and listen to everything she says.

[YAsQuen]

another one got pumped and dumbed and blames it on men

[Miristheiss]

Ah, this is a little vague.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t hurt them

[swettannie]

They do. But many enjoy that

[Anonymous]

I don't hurt her