Are you kinder to women you find attractive? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-12-08T11:50:51Z

As a teenager I was well aware that I wasn’t considered attractive to guys. I wasn’t obese but I was chubby, I had thick eyebrows and I suffered with acne. Next to my friend who was and still is incredibly beautiful, I felt hideous. And guys weren’t afraid to let me know that either. Guys my age and older than me. They wouldn’t give me a second glance, never held eye contact with me, only ever approached me so they could talk to my friend, never spoke to me, some made hurtful comments about my appearance and I guess since then I had been conditioned to think I wasn’t attractive and male attention would only be negative attention. The last few years that changed, I started learning to love myself and look after myself. I fell in love with working out, started eating healthier and treating myself kinder, I developed a skincare and hair care routine. And I guess I grew into my appearance. And I notice that the way guys treat me now is insanely different. They talk to me for no reason other than just to talk to me, they’ll hold eye contact with me and I notice them staring at me, they’ll hold doors open for me or there’s a space only one person can fit through at a time, they’ll let me go first, I notice more smiles from them, more compliments. One guy randomly came up to me whilst I was with my friends, kissed my hand and called me beautiful. It’s all so foreign to me as someone who grew up constantly being bullied by guys for my looks. My question is for you guys, do you notice yourself being kinder to girls you find attractive VS girls you don’t find attractive? Maybe it’s a subconscious thing? This is a no judge zone by the way. I’m just genuinely curious.

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I hate to admit it but i am.

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On a subconscious level it’s obv we are all

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No im not tbh
Im friendly with all

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kind, but not kinder

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