How do men perceive the first date?

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Hi guys, How do you perceive the first date? What are your expectations? Do you have certain standard questions? How do you evaluate the date after? Do you have any dealbreakers?

Anonymous · Answer

Desirable expectations are to find someone who wants to align themselves with you, and share things in common. Feelings of closeness, appreciation and warmth in their presence are sought for - especially feelings of dopamine and chemistry.

Sex is not an expectation, at least not for respectable guys, but light body contact is a natural desire to communicate closeness and comfort-ability with the idea; aka, hand holding, hugging,

Ironically, I have felt more of these emotions with my current mutual interest than any of my past dates... and that's where Deal-Breakers come into the picture... Do these and, well, we won't look back.

Deal-breakers:

Missing the first date after starting our the initial conversation
Inviting herself for another, only to complain about the venue she chose
Bringing up politics, especially those that are out of touch due to her rich family
Being a hypocrite (e. g. choosing the guy for looks, but complaining about reverse)
Being judgmental towards men as a whole at lunch, then surprised at split bill

How to Read a Date:

Reading a date come back to how they make your body physically feel. Are you excited by their presence? Do you wake up in the morning feeling warm at the thought of them? Did you enjoy your time with them? Do you feel a pull to remain in their spaces?

I currently feel this way about my mutual, but this is pre-date: We've been together enough to have experienced some of this already, but even unspoken mutual attraction must pass the filter of a date to reach the next level.

Wishing you the best

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

First date is always coffee at Starbucks. I expect at least a BJ in the car afterwards.

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