So I've known this guy for 5 weeks and he knew i had feelings and that i wanted to try having a relationship and he told me he wanted too, he even said i love you after the first time we met. The thing is he wanted me only for sex probably cuz he never opened up emotionally and whenever i was there all he could was cuddling, making out with me and we even had sex one time.
Talking with him was not really possible and whenever i told him what hurt me he got angry and blamed me for it. After 4 weeks he said he wasn't ready for a relationship the whole time. Which hurt me cuz he knew i had feelings and stuff and he just used me. So i told him that he hurt me bad and stuff and i deleted him from my texts, a day after he texted me on instagram asking how i was doing. We then talked and he told me it wasn't his intension to hurt me and that he wanted to try but he knew now he shouldve told it earlier.
He wanted to be friends but didn't wanted a second chance for a relationship cuz he also thought we didn't fit together and won't work out and that he wants to be single cuz he liked to be single. So after some time i broke off contact between us cuz i couldnt be friends with him and he reacted like he didn't care but now at school he didn't wanted to walk past me like he was ashamed or scared and stuff and his friends had to drag him all the way past me like what? one guy said like ''dude it's not like she will bite you''.
Was he ashamed of hurting me and didn't wanted an confrontation or? it was really weird.
I also don't know what he told his classmates cuz everyone seem to now about us and now too.
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Probably because he feels guilty for hurting you.
I hope he does, but its not because he hates me or anything?
I doubt he hates you; you've given him no reason to.
He avoided me the whole day yesterday but today when he was in class next to the class of mine he asked me how i was doing online? Like why? I broke off contact…does he care? Or doesn't he want me to move on? Or is it that he misses me or? It not he really replies fast and says much only if i am alright.
I suppose it's possible that he could hate *on* you, in terms of being jealous of you, but I can't see him actually hating you.
I think he can't see my happy or move on? That could be the reason he doesn't want to let go. I mean i did no harm and he knows too.
If you ignore him long enough, he'll go away.
Yeah i know i have to ignore him cuz he hurt me but on the other side i want to understand him so much and just i can't let him go because i still feel some hope but i know he doesn't respected me enough but still i can't let him go its hard for some reason. I dont understand why
But i texted him to leave me alone because i want to move on