Does my colleague like me?

[Anonymous]

I work with this man, at first it was nothing, but over a couple of months something has built up and I want to find out what it is without asking him directly.

Recently he's started calling me beautiful, we've had longer eye contact, his eyebrows rise when he sees me, he often stands close to me, I notice that he seeks me out when we sit in a group and talk, he/I touch hands for an extra second if we handing over something, we often travel by car at work and he says that a certain song is our song, he's been teasing me and so and so on

I don't know if he's just being nice to me and his type of humour is to tease and so on, but I've started to feel something as he makes me feel seen and special, but at the same time I'm afraid I'm wrong about everything

[SueShe]

Yes, he likes you but for one single reason. It is not because you are extraordinary, not because you are overly intelligent, not because your beauty is out of this world.

No, he likes you because he has very specific intentions in his mind. That is how men usually want to start a sexual relationship. They make you believe all kinds of crap, they want to melt you, they want to make you feel exceptional.

Once they have reached what they want, girls soon will notice that they fell into the "compliments trap" and are being (mis) used for fornication and fornication only.

After the novelty period is over, they will slowly move away and you will be left used and crying. That is the unfortunate reality of those players.

[laly520]

I think he is into u but maybe not that much? cuz if he did then whats stopping him from taking another step

[boobliker]

Do the takling thing and Ask him or her

[Iron_Man]

Yes he said it

[BigBootyKay]

It sounds like he does.