Would an emotionally unavailable guy come back for me if he had told me that he loved me?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I have known each other for a year now. We were attracted to each other from the first day we met and we started meeting and having sex. We're not dating but we've both confessed to each other. We both feel that feelings will get in the way of achieving our goals. He just seems too busy building his career and barely has time for me. I know he loves me. Sometimes he acts like he's running from me. Like I make him feel vulnerable or something. But sometimes I feel like I overestimate his feelings. What do I do?

[Lockey_]

Investing into career early can definitely help to have an easier life later, e. g. if i would not have invested into computer stuff, i would probably still do some dirty work on construction sites or similar.

On the other hand, career related stuff can be one of the worst addictions out there, it can destroy healthy life mid and long term.

If you go for a relationship in this case, you can fight for your together time, planning is a must. This might be hard at start but long term it shouldn't be a huge problem and it is kind of a natural thing thinking on a couple that has kids together (the "us time" needs to be planned)

[spartan55]

He doesn't love you or he would be with you

[Nikki1989]

No man is worth chasing. If is he serious enough, he will make the moves.

[Iron_Man]

It’s possible how long are you willing to wait year after year after year after year