I have checked that my man has liked a specific girl's photos and I'm afraid that he is more physically attracted to her than me, should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

What your man is doing is nothing short of emotional cheating. If he has the need and urge to check other women's pictures, that is indicative that he is unhappy in the relation he is in and is checking other girls (or girl types) out to see whether they suit him better than you.

It is actually a slap in your face. I certainly would not tolerate such a childish behavior and tell him to go seek elsewhere what he wants. The day I would find out that he is looking at the pictures of other women is the day that would be the end of the relationship.

He will of course deny anything but behaviours speak louder than words. Better be safe than sorry because sooner or later, he will leave you for someone that he finds physically more attractive. I am sorry for you.

[Asker]

Share the same opinions and values as you... I'm going to break up with him as soon as he comes over tonight. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Thank you for the advice.

[SueShe]

Good luck to you.

[Nikki1989]

Find a man, not a boy. Mature people don't waste their time with online silliness. This site is bad enough.

[Asker]

You're a sweetheart!
I know he loves me, I know that much. I know also that I'm beautiful and I don't envy the other girl, because she's gorgeous too, but I think I need to be with someone who finds me the most beautiful girl in the world (for him). Never fought for a guy's attention before, but being in love and feeling this insecure about someone's attraction is so devastating...

[Saiesh30]

Yeah i think so and better ask him straight than to get ditched later.
He's not gonna admit it so best to ask him clear what's it about.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing your opinion on this, appreciate it.

[Saiesh30]

Your welcome ✌🏻

[Avicenna]

Well, is she someone he has contact with in real life?

[Asker]

No, he has known her since he was in high school and we're in our 30s. Is not someone close to him, he's not in touch with her, but when I asked him if he has recently liked those provocative photos, he demonstrated me with timeline filter that since the day he met me he hasn't liked any girls's pictures. Basically, I know for a fact that those pictures were liked before I came in his life, but when I asked him if he has ever done this thing, after a couple of days he figured out who the girl I was talking about was and unliked the pics. If he was not filling guilty, why unlike them? If he was genuine l

[Asker]

No, he has known her since he was in high school and we're in our 30s. She's not someone close to him, and he's not in touch with her, but when I asked him if he has recently liked any girl's provocative photos, he demonstrated to me with a timeline filter that since the day he met me he hasn't liked any girls' pictures. I know for a fact that those pictures were liked before I came into his life, but when I asked him if he had ever done this thing, after a couple of days he figured out who the girl I was talking about was and unliked the pics. If he was not feeling guilty, why unlike them? If he was genuine, he wouldn't have felt guilty too unlike them, and wouldn't have known whom I was referring to, since he has more than 1k followers.

[Asker]

Error

[jahaims]

You're an idiot if you think he doesn't find others more attractive. Out of 4 billion females you aren't going to be number one.

[Asker]

I'm not saying it's only me who is beautiful, that would be silly to even think...
All I would want is for him to be more physically attracted to me than other women.
It happens! There are a lot of gorgeous blondes, brunettes, redheads, and different races of women in the world and different guys have different preferences about different body types, facial features, etc.
I want to be my man's nr 1, is it too much or too impossible to have?

[Iron_Man]

How do you really know

[Asker]

I've checked her photos and seen a few liked by him. I know it sounds silly and I don't care if he liked them when he was single, because dah, we all do. All I am worried about is that he sees her as more physically compatible than me.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him now