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I am talking to someone who lives in France for a while. I live in another country, we were classmates before he gone to France.
We are communicating via WhatsApp but he always ask why I am taking time to reply when I took 5 to 10 to reply to his message but I do reply the fast when we have a discussions. I do work but I always explain to him that I can't reply as fast I see his message every single he sends me a message. Sometimes he takes time to reply to me but I don't ask him why he takes to reply. He feels like I am doing it on purpose taking time to reply.
What is your thoughts? I am sick of explaining myself and it's a turn off. I think of stop talking to him for good.
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Oh man, this guy sounds like a serious-stage-5 clinger! Blowin' up your phone every time it takes you 5 minutes to reply? Red flag city, girl.
Like nobody got time for that kind of neediness, you feel me? We all got lives happening outside the phone. Dude needs to chill way the hell out.
I'd be straight with him - "Look, I told you I'm busy. Stop interrogating me about reply times or this ain't gon' work." If that doesn't get through his thick skull, peace out sis!
You don't need that kinda pressure and accusations. It's only been chatting so far, imagine how 10x worse the cling would get if you actually dated him! Yikes.
My advice? Block and delete before this dude stalks you across countries or some sh*t. His behavior is waaaay over the top. You can do better, girl! Go find you a man who ain't so desperate.
Hmmm…5 or 10 what? Minutes? Seconds? Eh, doesn’t matter. Neither of those are crazy long periods to wait for a reply. Is it really 5 or 10 minutes though? Or is it like 20-30? Cause I’d probably get annoyed with someone taking more than 10 minutes to reply.
We have time differences, I do reply fast when we having discussions. If you sent "hey" message and the other reply in five minutes as they can be doing something but they still engage with you. Can you still get annoyed?
Five minutes is fine. But is it actually just five minutes or is it like 20-30 minutes?
5 mins. I tell him that I am busy in advance like " I will be busy for 2 days, doing reports with my supervisors, in case you sent me a message I will probably will not have time for long discussions" but he doesn't say shit like this when he is busy. Sometimes he sends messages only to tell me that he is busy that we can talk later. I believe that he thinks that I am seeing some other men as we aren't in same country.
Hmmm…yeah, it sounds like he’s not being very understanding. If he gets on your case again tell him that he needs to relax.
Also I am the only that ask questions and he is so passive as f. He doesn't bring topic for us to discuss and also he judged me for something take two minutes to reply to his message. We use French language to communicate, I don't use French with my family and friends as they so fluent in English. I have to convert my keyboard to French for him and tape the message and direct the conversation as he doesn't ask questions. If I ask him a question then he tell me to answer the question that he ask him too.
Yeah, I mean, I don’t see why you’re keeping this guy in your life if that’s how you feel.
You're right, I didn't asked my self this question.