Opinions please… so.. this guy I’m dating sent me messages earlier whilst we were mid chat he sent me a message… ?

[Finfin1981]

Saying talking to NZ then I sent a few jokey messages saying what is NZ? Shall I guess etc

he then keeps reading my jokey messages in the end I said a joke about I’m done guessing sends another saying im

still onto NZ 😍 then he comes off and says I’m back now..

so I was like ‘what was NZ?’ He says ‘oh yeah I was on the phone to my mate in New Zealand he’s great ‘

I was like ‘I didn’t understand and had you said that I would have left you alone and not messaged’ to which he didn’t say anything about that

why do I feel like I’ve come off as the bad guy here?
grrrr help and opinions please

[JayBones]

Nz is a woman with the initials of NZ. The message that he sent you was probably automatically sent from his phone. It sends a pre-written message using the contact name as it is stored in his phone. He put this woman's name in his phone so that if you went spying on his phone you would not see Nichole Ziggler in his phone and ask him who she is.

[Finfin1981]

New Zealand.. his mate in New Zealand who was male

[JayBones]

Lol. That's what he told you. He is lying.

[Finfin1981]

Why lie? Why send me a photo of his mate?

[spartan55]

Really dude?

[JayBones]

Lolyour stupid. He is fucki g a girl with the initials N and Z

[Finfin1981]

Why tell me he’s chatting to her whilst chatting to me on messenger? Because he wants me ti know? Then sent a photo of his male friend..
it doesn’t make any sense?

[spartan55]

Don't listen to this crap.

[spartan55]

Because you wouldn't let something that didn't matter at all go. Very annoying.

[Finfin1981]

What do you mean?

[Finfin1981]

I mean any harm by it just was joking and trying to have some banter.. oh dear I’ll just disappear for a while now and not contact him at all.. good plan?

[spartan55]

I get it, but it sounds like it rubbed him the wrong way. I'd just try to chill out a little. That could have been easily avoided.

[Finfin1981]

Yes agree.. why stay on the chat read the messages then just ignore.. could have just said ‘I’m on the phone I’ll speak later’
We don’t speak sand language and third party language we speak gets confusing sometimes

[spartan55]

@Finfin1981
Thanks for the MHO! Let me know if I can help you.