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He says he’s not where he wants to be career wise (I don’t fully believe that)…. Yet he wants to know when I was last intimate with someone and he indirectly criticized how I dress… (showing skin.. cleavage)
why is any of that his concern
yet when I ask him the same thing he changes the subject or chuckles in a low tone
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So change the subject and chuckle in a low tone when he asks... why are you wasting your time?
Because I really liked him and I didn’t understand why he did that. I thought maybe he was protecting my feelings I don't know
He wasn't protecting your feelings, he was being a dick. Besides he only wanted sex anyway.
I don’t understand why he was being that way… esp since he was so different through text…. He seemed genuine and intelligent… I guess he just didn’t like me and he wanted to sabotage the date…
I don’t think he just wanted sex tho
He told you he isn't ready for a relationship yet. That's code for he just wants sex. Ask me how I know.
Why would he lie about his intentions when I told him what I did and didn’t want
How is he lying about anything? He told you he wasn't ready for a relationship. So... what are you talking about?
Bc in the beginning he made it seem like he wanted more
"he made it seem like he wanted more" what does that mean? Sounds like that's what you wanted and didn't have a discussion about it until later.
No bc I didn’t want anything and he knew that in the beginning. He said he was struggling to understand that. He said he knew I was trying to play it safe but he said he still thought I would be open to something serious and that he’ll end up liking me for nothing
So I said I was willing to take things slow
I don't if it's your writing or what, but this is all very convuluted.
Okay ✅
I’m sorry
Just trying to understand. Maybe start from the beginning.
You already know the placeholder story
Oh it's you.
Just stop already
He was wrong uncle
No he wasn't. But you're right and EVERYONE else knows nothing right?
you're DEFENDING HIM TOO? How wasn’t he wrong
He wanted sex
All guys want sex.
True but he did me dirty
Why because he didn't want to be with you?
Bc of how he delivered the message
Huh? How should he have delivered the message?
By telling me he wasn’t interested instead of ghosting me
You act like you are the only ghosting victim ever. If you could learn how to act in a civil manner and control yourself maybe he wouldn't have ghosted. Maybe he would have. And let me remind you that you are STILL carrying on and on and on about this guy that you really didn't want anyway.
But it’s the fact that I told him certain things and he didn’t have enough care to just say he wasn’t interested
That’s hurtful
What are you going to do? This type of thing is very common.
I don't know … nothing I can do.. I can’t believe I’m not over him
He really re opened a wound
I'm glad you are at least self-aware enough (I think) to not be in a relationship.
I would be moving on and looking for a man that can show some respect.
I was disappointed… he probably tried to sabotage the date.