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He just phoned me to say even though he is in love with me I’m too far away and he’s started seeing someone else in the last two weeks and therefore if I come over he will hug me but nothing else but he still wants me to come over … every time I get close to this guy he gets a ‘new girlfriend’ for a few weeks.. barriers and just doesn’t like me enough. Even said ‘you never know what will happen between us in ten years’
thoughts on this trip…
Updates
2 mo
Oh and apparently he’s in love with me
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Wow, you are really still bothering with that guy? Ugh...
Well evidently not anymore !! 🤣
Yeah, we will see.
He is not in love with you. Stop believing his bullshit.
Yeah I know ! Let’s keep this girl around in case it doesn’t work out cos I love attention
Is this guy really your best option?
Well no but I’ve invested too much time into it … I need to widen the field … I sort of feel a sense of relief being able to say thanks but I’ll not be coming to see you in April take car … funny how things turn out …
Invested too much time meaning what? You won't cut him loose? Sunken cost fallacy doesn't apply here. Did you ever actually meet the guy in person?
Yeah we’ve known each other for 20 years.. we were at uni together he had feelings for me back then so yeah we do know each other …
Invested in that I learnt a valuable lesson I took all these signs etc as someone who was still very interested and when he did a u turn because he wants instant gratification and ignored the red flags like ‘come visit me he suggested feb March and April and I said March and he said April ‘ if he really was in love with me he would have said March due to not being able to stay away etc if that makes sense …
Very valuable lesson
I’ve cut him loose … can I message you my message that I sent him?
Sure
Not sure if I sent it or not
Yeah I got it.
moveeee on