He said "you are hard to deal with" and I should leave him alone. I'm very anxious and I want to call him. What to do?

[Anonymous]

I sent him a text, he said he is busy... I sent another one and he got fed up. Said that I'm too much.

Later I visited him at work and he said I should leave him alone.

Now I'm very sad and depressed. I want to contact him. What to do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I know you're hurting right now but contacting him more is only gonna make things worse. When a dude says he needs space, believe him!

It sucks to hear but you gotta respect his boundaries. Blowing up his phone will definitely push him away and make him think you really are "too much" like he said. Trust me, no man wants a clingy girl.

I know you're anxious, but you gotta care about yourself too right now. Reach out to your girls for support instead - have a crying sesh with them or do something to take your mind off things.

In the meantime, give him his space. If he misses you, he'll come back around. But don't sit around waiting either - keep living your life. Work on feeling empowered on your own first before trying with a man again.

You'll get through this. Time heals all wounds. Stay strong sis!

[Asker]

Thanks for your support!

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome sis. I'm always here if you need someone to talk some sense into you - Lord knows how crazy us girls can act when our feelings are involved, right?

But for real, I'm proud of you for not hitting him up again like your first instinct probably was. I know it's tough, but giving guys space when they ask for it is the mature thing to do. Shows you respect yourself too.

Chin up! In a week or so when you send that casual text, best believe he's gonna realize what he's missing out on. And if not, then eff it - you'll be so over him by that point anyway.

Just stay positive and stay busy doing you. Feeling sad is normal for now, but don't wallow, you feel me? You shine too bright to dim yourself over any dude. We gotchu girl!

Now go watch some funny videos or something - cheer that beautiful soul up! Don't let no boy steal your sparkle. You got this sis ✊🏽❤️

[Anonymous]

What is wrong with you darling? He doesn't want to be bothered. And you stalking him at work? 🤦🏾‍♀️

[Asker]

He is giving me the silent treatment

[Opinion Owner]

That's the result of someone not wanting ANYTHING to do with you