Dancer sat on my husbands lap and he didn’t tell her to get off?

[Anonymous]

I was at a venue having a few drinks with my husband. As entertainment, they have girls walking around wearing skinny clothes doing fire breathing etc.

One came over and sat on his knee infront of me. My husband watched her as she was doing stuff with the fire. After about 30 seconds she got up.

We had an argument when we got home as I was annoyed he didn’t ask her to get up off him. Am I overreacting or was this disrespectful?

[TheorionMage]

She was doing YOU a favor by showing how HE reacted IN FRONT OF YOU.
She's an entertainer, NOT a prostitute. HOW he innately responded to her sitting on him says what HIS body is readying for! It is in male nature to be a circumstantial 'opportunist'.

There exists a Asian fetish called: 'Chijo' where mischievous female commuters perform subtle intimate groping of suited businessmen on public transit seeking to arouse and have them 'soil' themselves to show in this misogynistic culture who REALLY controls the human 'animal'. The reciprocal practice is 'chikan' wherein females are involuntarily fondled to orgasm publically.

The premise is: "beneath all the hypocritical societal artifice we're ALL still 'animals'~

[Huntingnfishin]

You were at a place where this kind of thing happens... she was just trying to do her job nothing else

[Anonymous]

Next time don’t go to a venue that has girls walking around like that. The girls were doing their part which is their job to make money, and your husband was simply not doing anything well…because one, you’re at the entertainment place and two he probably didn’t want to be rude to the worker. If you were annoyed or didn’t like what you saw which is understandable, just explain to your husband that you didn’t like that and in the future just make sure you know what will be expected in the venue. No need to have an argument, only if your husband doesn’t respect what your dislikes and likes are then you can blow his heads off haha

[MrOracle]

You said it better than I could.

That's like going into a casino and being shocked - SHOCKED! - to find gambling going on.

[jahaims]

You consented to that kind of environment. You would only have a right to be mad if he made you go there.

[AngryCarl]

Your husband didn't want to cause a scene or upset the female. What would you have done in his place? By the way nobody likes a nagging spouse.

[MrDaveAPSI]

She was acting. You're overreacting, to her ACTING

[Anonymous]

And? If that bothers you, then stop going to strip clubs.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe she already got off before that.

[Anonymous]

Lmaooo talk about insecure!💀

[KrakenAttackin]

You and your husband are trashy AF.