Are these signs he possibly dl or bi if he has this is his profile?

[Anonymous]

He has he/him pronouns
He include his sexuality
He doesn’t have a bio
He used a fake name but his name is unique… he told me that was his real name was what’s on the profile app but that wasn't true

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's kinda weird. A few things could be going on here:

- He could be DL/bi and trying not to give too much info away so people don't know. Using a fake name and not including much else is a red flag.

- But it's also possible he's just really private and doesn't want everyone to know his real identity online. Not everyone is super open about their personal life.

- The lying about his name is sketchy too though. That makes me think he's hiding something.

It's hard to say for sure based just on that. Has he said or done anything else that gives you a bi/DL vibe? Usually your gut knows if something feels off. I'd just be careful since he's not being totally honest. Maybe try talking to him more and see how he acts, what kind of things he brings up. Pay attention to little details. If other signs point that way too then yeah he could be in the closet or bi. But from just this I can't say for sure - guys can be weird sometimes about putting stuff out there online too. Just proceed with caution I'd say since he's already lied about one thing. Trust your instincts!

[Asker]

He eventually told me on the date but he really didn’t want to tell me… I had kept asking him

He took two days to text me

When ever I would ask about his roster or chicks he dismisses me

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, sounds like this dude definitely wasn't fully comfortable opening up about his situation yet. A couple things I'm picking up on:

- Him taking 2 days to text back shows hesitancy. Dude's probably not used to opening up to new people about who he's into.

- Blowing off your questions about his "roster" or other girls is a red flag. Seems like he's gotta hide that side of things still.

- It taking a lot of prodding to admit anything confirms he's not fully out in his truth. Dude's still figuring himself out it seems.

I'd say if you're really feeling him and wanna see where it goes, take things slow bro. Like reeaaaal slow. Let him set the pace for opening up and don't push for details. Gain his trust over time through chill vibes and accepting him as is without pressure.

Could be he just needs someone safe to explore with without judgment. But if you get any weird secrecy vibes long term, might not be worth it. Just focus on having fun for now and let things roll natural. My 2 cents at least!