I don’t drive or work or go to college and im still living w my parents. Am I a loser :( ?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The positive here is at least you are debt free. I'd rather have done what you are doing at your age than what I did which is collect debt. People can say whatever but being 30 something and filled with debt is crushing and depressing. You do what makes you happy but don't feel like you have to do anything to be in the status quo. Work on yourself and do what is going to be financially great for your future. Save up and don't get student loan debt if you can help it. And certainly don't get credit card debt.

shoeboxcerealcard · Accepted Answer

Get a mentor. Someone who has great results in life. Don't just pick anyone. But seriously wake up. This is your life. You may only have 5-10 years left of it for all you know. Get serious. Nobody is a loser and we all need to stop saying stuff like that. You just don't know how to live. Get a mentor. Trust me it's the smartest decision you could ever make. Start thinking about the life you want. Then find someone who knows how to actually achieve results. Clearly no one around you knows.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

depends what you are doing.

Maybe you are running an online business or building the next Apple Computers in their basement.

if you are playing video games all day and watching soap operas, disconnected from the world, no goals, and putting in no work... then I think yes, that definition just might fit.

Drew-1990 · Accepted Answer

I would not call you a loser at all. I lived at home till I was 25, it is a smart way to save money for a house. Now I did have a license and my own car though. But I lived in the country, still do, you can't rely on your parents, siblings and friends for that all the time, it took too much time.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't think you are, especially if you're like me and have certain disabilities that make it a bit harder to get to those things in life. But no matter what your circumstances are, hugs to you from me. 🤗 Just do the best you can do while you're living with your parents. I do housework, help with food prep, and do my hobbies. I mean, if you're worthless than so am I by definition.

exitseven · Answer

I an sure you are a very nice person but don;t you have any aspirations in your life? You are still young enough to turn this around. Do you have any kind of phobias that are preventing you from moving your life forward?
Make a goal for yourself. Just one goal. Make a plan on how you will reach that goal. Follow the plan and if you have a setback, make a plan to get around it.
Rinse and repeat.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Welcome to the club! Though I DID go to college and get two degrees and I was working seasonally for 4 years, but that all went to shit. It's one thing if you DON'T want to work, but if you can't get a job due to factors that are out of your control, then you have no reason to kick yourself, but you need to do SOMETHING. I opted for college because my mom was threatening me, either work or college.

4ngelic · Answer

i'm also 23 and i'm litterally in the same case as you.. 😳 (though i'm actively trying to fix that)

i dont think we're losers just yet but it's getting a little borderline. like if you're like that at 25 then yea

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on winning a  Troll  of the day award. Or are you truly happy being just a glorified parasite to your parents?

musicbrain5 · Answer

There’s nothing wrong with living with your parents. However, if you’re not disabled and not actively bettering your life by getting an education or working to contribute financially, then yes you’re a loser.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

As someone who's spent YEARS paying off a mortgage, building repairs, re-decorating, and just generally shoving loads of money into the house? I'm saying NO. You're the smart one!

dustybiker2 · Answer

You felt the need to ask this. The more important questions for you, do you feel like one? Are you wanting to improve yourself?

IslaTheWitch · Answer

are you? It depends only on your way of thinking about yourself. No one else can make you a loser. Only you can.

DJB72 · Answer

Not at 23. But find a job that's not Only Fucks and put something aside from each paycheck as if you're renting. In a few months you'll have a deposit to buy or a nest egg to invest for the future.

Dbtr99 · Answer

Do you have a legit reason not to work like medical problems?

sheikalana · Answer

Only if you don't have a plan for the future. Cuz things won't happen to you if you just stay in the house.

dudeinohio · Answer

In your age range, it is a little odd. However, you have the opportunity to change all this when you are ready.

Yannae · Answer

Not if you're doing what you can to change the situation you don't like being in.

Booklover_90 · Answer

Why is that? You’re not a kid anymore and your parents aren’t going to be around forever.

Jay-_- · Answer

Not to us men we could find it cute, now reverse rolls and ask a women 😂

Rnjura · Answer

That's a hard question, to me, you are not a loser do what makes you happy.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

As long as your objective is to be a stay at home mom i have no problem with you

BLP11520 · Answer

in this economy, no one is a loser for that the circumstances are hard on many people✅

ab2shifty · Answer

I don’t think loser is the right word, but you still have time to switch things up

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, and who pays for the make-up and fake eyelashes and botox?

Anonymous · Answer

A little bit. But you can change that at any time.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, yes.. but you have time to get your shit together and change for the better.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I hope you're not proud of yourself.

rosemilk · Answer

you're only 23...

Anonymous · Answer

In India we proudly live with our parents. It isn't considered a bad thing at all

The_Sexpert · Answer

You're still young , keep up the hope

Lottydotty · Answer

Kinda, but join the clubs

gorydetails · Answer

yes, you are. Grow up.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

You can change all of that

nawtee_me · Answer

Nope, you are lucky

In_Trance · Answer

So what are you doing?

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, I mean you're doing something right?

eagle1951 · Answer

nope smart these days

Slim57 · Answer

Only if you're a man apparently.

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

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