I live with my parents and I don't work.
Am I loser?
PS- My home doesn't have a basement.
Am I loser?
PS- My home doesn't have a basement.
Am I a loser for staying with my parents, having no job at age of 21?
What's your plan? Are you studying or looking for a job? Do you help around the house and contribute to the household, (I don't mean money unless you do start working.) Why are you in that situation?
If you're just sitting there mooching then I'd call you a sponge but not a loser.
It's cheaper and smarter in some cases to stick around with your parents if they're willing and able to help, especially if it's just gonna be you.
I've been sitting at home sponging and looking for a new job but I dont intend on moving anytime soon, because it's expensive and I'd miss my dad. Lol but when I was working I had to pay him rent and contribute to food which I'll do again when I start working.
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No you're not. I'm in the same situation as you. I've just been applying for jobs since I left school but since most places want a year experience I started volunteering at a charity shop a year ago to gain experience whilst looking for work.
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Eh, it depends. If you're jobless by choice and have no intent on getting one, nor do you have any other plans, it doesn't sound like you have much going for you.
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It's common and ok. It's rather rare for a GIRL to work and be independent. I will try to be financially independent as soon as possible.
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Ok, these people responding are just being way, way too nice to you. Yeah, you're a loser. You live at home with no job and you admit that you have no intention of getting a job. You're an able-bodied adult human and you're living off of parents who are on the latter half of their careers and need to be planning for their retirement -- especially since they know that their daughter won't be able to help them out financially.
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Only if you were living there till the age of 42, so that's the answer.
Maybe like 20-30 years ago I imagine where parents kicked their kids out of the house at 18 and told them to get a job. Not so much in today's world where you can't find a job that will pay the bills unless you're educated/have skills or are lucky enough to find that one unique job where you don't need a college education.
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The main question is whether you have plans and are working on those plans. If the answer to both is no, then you may be a loser. If you have plans and aren't working towards them then change that today. Otherwise you may be a loser. If you have plans and are working towards them then no, you're not a loser.
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Personally I don't think you are a loser but this is the time in your life where you must seek your Independence. You have to go out into the cruel undeserving world and make a name for yourself in the working world or at least go to school for a few years. Trade school should also be an option.
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Ask your parents to pay for a basement, go down there with hentai + high speed internet and never leave. That's how you live the good life (trust me)
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Depends on which culture you are in. Where you are is absolutely normal and you living with your parents doesn't define you are a loser.
If you start working in same town and keep living with your parents, still not a loser.
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I'd tell you to get a job if you were my kid, that is if you're not in college or something, but other than that no.
I lived with my parents until I was 22, but I was working my ass off and trying to save as much money as I could. Then I got married and bought a house with a 10,000 $ head start.
Give yourself some time. Find some work, save some money and you be right on trac - 2.7K opinions shared on Other topic.
Sometimes you end up in situations that perhaps aren't ideal. I had to move back with my parents after university because I just couldn't find a job. Don't worry about how it looks, just focus getting to where you want to go in life
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Well I guess I am a big fucking loser, because I'm still at home too 😂😂😂
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no, i dont think you are a loser for living with your parents. im 23 and work two fulltime jobs and still live with my parents.
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nope. you are not. being a loser has nothing to do with that, and besides, it doesn't matter how slow you go what matters that you dont give up and stop
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I would say no issues with living at home if you have a goal or are saving... but I would hope you are either in school or trying hard to find a job. If not, ya I would wonder...
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I don't think you are but that's just my personal opinion.
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Absolutely not sometime the rest of your life could meet around the next corner waiting to meet you
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If you are serious about your life then you're not a loser. if not, you are a loser.
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i'm 23, still living with my parents, haven't finished my studies yet (got 2 more years to go)
calm down ;) - 8K opinions shared on Other topic.
I don't know any other gager more pathetic than this.
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I'm 20 and live at home. But im also a student and working...
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Its cheaper and dont have to fork out so much money so its better unless you got kids
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You suck 😂 fuck it's normal for 21 yr old.. If you were 30 then that would have been a problem
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bah whateves... leave when you get married
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it's ok to do what you want as long you're not fucking things up. i mean... you need moneys and food
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