So I told him I didn’t like how he talked to me in front of our customers and then he told me I’m fiesty and crazy and have a temper. Like crazy means “emotionally unstable” right? So then things escalated and then he pretended like he was gonna hit me. He’s also morrocan and fiesty and crazy with a temper so wthell. Ps I’m not crazy. Like I don’t lash out but he strikes me as someone who does like if he was more than just a crush.. if he shows a temper like this over something stupid, then what does that mean? Like I wanna make up and apologize because I’m so in love with him but I f’d up..
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I don’t know what kind of answer I’m looking for, but I need some insight and had a very strong urge to rant.
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You’re nearly 50 years old stop acting like a high school teenager. Be an adult.
What would an adult do?
Crushes are for kids/teens who don’t know what to do with their emotions. As an adult, if you know you like a guy then you should either let him know or move on. Especially if you’re all in love with the guy, don’t be passive aggressive because of your overwhelming emotions.
However I want to be honest, and I don’t feel like this specifically is a good match. It sounds like you work closely with him, so if things didn’t work out then you’d be stuck trying to navigate around each other or not to feel awkward. He also doesn’t sound like he has the best attitude and pretty rude so I’m not sure what’s so attractive outside of his looks.
Why do u even love a abuser
@plugs good question
Why u love him
you made a mistake. you shoulda seen what he would say before rehashing.
know to be patient for future.
Bruhhh the only weird one is the guy. He almost fucking hit u , gaslighted u as mad. Run