Is it bad that my boyfriend asked me if I'm a virgin or not in the first few months of dating? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2024-03-29T10:02:40Z

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. When we first started dating, he asked me if I'm a virgin or not. I said yes because he's the first guy I've had a serious relationship with. He's also my first kiss and I've had zero experience with guys before him. If he had asked me once and for all, I'd be fine with it, but he asks me this question almost every once or twice in a week. I always give him the same answer that yes, I was a virgin before I met him. I've even asked him to stop asking me this question repeatedly, and he justifies it by saying that it's important for him because he wants to be my first, it's important if he wants to marry me etc etc. He even says that his friends are with girls who have f***ed "thousands of dudes" and that sometimes makes him insecure. Is it justified for him to repeatedly ask me this tho?

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AviatorTom Follow
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Why would you consider that question to be bad?

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WhitneySnow Follow
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Yes. Him asking you that repeatedly is a huge red flag.

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VforVindication Follow
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Yes, if you are not a virgin. He wants a virgin and i don't blame him. I am the same. I wouldn't want a woman that has slept around ffs.

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MzAsh Follow
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Please don’t have sex with him.

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Peridot25 Follow
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I mean, if he’s that skeptical and thinks you’re a hoe, why’s he with you?

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Juxtapose Follow
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Guys who are obsessed with virginity are such fucking losers.

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Anonymous
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When do you suppose this question IS appropriate?
Never?
After 6 months of dating?
A year?
When?

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy Follow
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I don't think so. It's not like it was on the 1st or 2nd date.

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  Regarding asking you several times the same question after you gave him the answer is annoying though.
  
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jack1924 Follow
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Fuck him.. ask him if he is a virgin

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In_Trance Follow
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First few months? Wtf

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Djaay Follow
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He just wants u to prove it soon..

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Anonymous
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Look at the feminists triggered 😂

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- jack1924
  
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  Very funny😒😒😒😒😒
  
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Anonymous
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i assume he was the one who asked you out

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- Asker
  
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  U assume correct
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  why am i not surprised
  
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