There’s this guy who even after I politely turned him down is still nice to me. He handled rejection well. He didn’t treat me differently after turning him down. He’s still polite, professional and friendly. Mainly because we work together and that just seems to be who he is but from time to time he still tells me things like “You’re so attractive.” “Don’t let any of these jealous women mess up your face.” “You can tell you’re sweet with a good spirit.” “You’re cute/pretty but I also understand that you don’t want me but make sure whatever guy gets you he worships the ground you walk on.” When he’s talking to other people and sees me he always stops mid conversation and goes “How are you doing? Are you good are you straight?” He always offers to buy my lunch and I usually turn that down. He says things and does things as if I’m a princess. That’s what makes me feel it could be fake but he also could be genuinely just saying what’s on his mind and doing these things but it’s those insecure doubtful thoughts telling me it’s insincere.
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Are these compliments or fake flattery?
