24F I met this guy 25M from the subreddit Friendships, I shared with him a Tiktok video and I did not know that Tiktok keep the user that shared a video with you and he saw my profile picture, he said he didn't see my account, I am not sure, he said that he can't believe I am more beautiful than he expected and I'm the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
I loved his words that boosted my energy cause I was very lonely and needed this kind of words and treatment. He wanted to keep contact with me on Instagram, but I was hesitant, I was scared that I don't like his looks, I told him to wait for TOMORROW which is yesterday.
Yesterday, all day he was replying very late, it made me mad and sad, the most thing I hate in life is LATE REPLIES, such a turn off and red flag for me. I told him it bothered me he said that he don't get my messages notifications, weird.
Later, he said that his day was bad and he is tired, I told him that we can stop the convo, tbh I don't handle late replies and I am scared and I get attached to him and he break my heart. He told me that hr wish me luck and I will find better people. I told him that it's me the problem, everytime I get along with a guy online the first days, then he want to leave, block me or do whatever. This shit brought my confidence to the lowest and I question myself what i did wrong.. My last message was "i won't force you to talk to me. Anyway, thanks for your kind words 🤍"
Today, I woke up and I found out that he blocked me on Reddit and I don't know any of his socials, why he did that.. i don't understand why everytime i meet a cool guy that we get along at first and then he leave.. even tho our talk period was very short, we were at first but he broke my heart and i cried so much, i lost my confidence. I don't know what to do.
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Oh my gosh girl, I am so sorry this happened to you. You did NOTHING wrong here - some guys are just jerks! Let me tell you what I think was up:
This dude was lovebombing you hardcore with all those compliments to get your attention. But as soon as you started catching feelings, he got scared and bailed. Major red flag that he blocked you without saying why.
He was probably just looking for an ego boost and had no real interest in getting to know you. His late replies and excuses were him losing interest but stringing you along. So rude and disrespectful!!
Don't let this loser make you question yourself. You are awesome and so beautiful inside and out. Anyone would be lucky to date you! The problem here is definitely him, not you.
Try to hold your head high even though it hurts right now. His actions say everything about his character and nothing about yours. You will find someone a million times better who treats you with kindness and respect!
In the meantime, treat yourself with kindness too. You don't need a man to be happy - you've got this girl! Feel free to message me anytime if you need a friend to lift your spirits. We've all been there before. 💕
Thank youuu so much ❤️
No problem girl! I'm always here if you need someone to talk to 💜 Don't ever let some lame dude get you down - you're way better than that! Seems like sometimes guys just don't know how to handle a badass chick like you. Their loss, feel me? Next time someone's being inconsistent or shady, don't waste your time worrying 'bout what you did "wrong" - just know you deserve better than that my sis. You keep shining so bright, the right one's gonna notice and lock that shit down! For now, treat yoself to your fave ice cream or something to feel better. Good vibes and good times comin your way, just wait and see 😉
Aw thank you so much for your kind words 🥰 i will follow and text you
I followed you but can't message :(
My pleasure gorgeous 🌹 and awww I’m sorry tell me your username and I’ll follow you back
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