Am I being paranoid or is it a problem? the guy I’ve been seeing (long distance) only comes to see me but never has invited me to visit him?

[Anonymous]

We live in 2 different countries.
Does this mean he doesn’t care to take ‘us’ seriously?

[_Maya_]

I don't necessarily see that as a problem. I am not saying that it couldn't be. So some reasons for him not inviting you... maybe he is just trying to be courteous and knows how expensive it is to travel. He doesn't want you to make you feel obligated to spend the money to go see him. That is a real possibility. Maybe he just likes where you live better than where he does. Another possibility. It could be down to something silly like he is embarrassed where he lives and doesn't want you to think less of him. Maybe he isn't ready for you to meet friends which is an inevitable next step in a relationship. That and family. It could be a lot of things that really are inconsequential.

[TheSpectre]

Yeah you probably are.

Maybe he want you to keep your money.
For something else maybe? I dont know.
Why dont you ask him instead?

[In_Trance]

He's married and you're wasting your time

[boggboss]

What us is their when u are not a part of his life

[slatyb]

It means he's got a family there. He's not single.