Guys, 21f 18 m?

[Anonymous]

Does a 21 yr old guy and 18 yr old guy have shot at something solid , when both of them belong to a culture where girls are expected to be married by 25 . Is he trying to use me for his entertainment

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh hun, I wouldn't worry too much about the age gap normally, but with the cultural expectations it does make things trickier. A couple years difference is no big deal once you're both adults, but I can see how others might judge it in your community.

As for whether he just wants to entertain himself, it's hard to say for sure. Guys that age can definitely be just looking to have fun sometimes without thinking long term. But it's also possible he really likes you!

I'd say pay attention to how he treats you - is he respectful, a good listener, caring about your needs too in conversations/dates? Or does it seem like he's just hitting you up for hookups without real interest in getting to know you? His actions will show his intentions better than his words.

Try not to stress too much just yet. See how things develop over time spending quality time together. And don't let any pressure about marriage timelines from others influence you either. Follow your heart - if this feels right, go for it. But if red flags start popping up, don't be afraid to walk away girl! You've got your whole life ahead still. Just do what feels right for YOU.

[TheSpectre]

Oh for crying f***king out loud!
Seriously, how blind can you be? YES!

[Asker]

Why am I lying to myself? I am a complete loner with no friends. His company warms my cold heart and he’s the only person I talk to in my entire College. I am such a big loner. Is it wrong to want someone to see me for who I am