Guys, Guys when you deflowering a girl do you care how it should be done or just thrust in without caring?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Whether it's the first time or the 25th time... I'm going to make it all about her I'm going to try to become one with her I'm going to read her eyes the color of her cheeks The Way she moves the way she moans because I want to take her to a place that she's never been before.

I want to give her more than one orgasm because I want her to want to do it again and again and again... For me making it all about the girl is a turn on to turn her on because that's what turns me on and if I can become one in that moment with her then it's going to be great

Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

Not only do I think that it is imperative that a man treat a girl right her first time, but I strongly believe that he should always proceed as if it were her first time when he is having sex with a new partner. To a lesser extent, I always try to consider the lessons of first time sex every time I take a girl to bed with time to please her. If you always treat her like the wedding night…well, trust me that the sex will be amazing.

JacobJordan · Answer

My wife and I took it very slow for several reasons. 1 we were both virgins. 2 she is tiny 3 I am quite a bit above average. 4 that hurts for both of us. 5 we wanted it to be memorable and not in a bad way.

Course it was pretty sad cause made it about 20 seconds before I was done lol. We had to do 3 more rounds before we both were satisfied enough to remember it

onedarkcloud · Answer

When I deflowered my girlfriend/wife I did it in slow easy way to make it as pleasurable for her as possible. Later in life she told me that at the time could not find the words to say that she appreciated the gentle way we had first sex. She had heard how painful losing virginity was from her girlfriends and she said it was not that way all she felt was a pinch and a little blood and the beginning of her entering womanhood that lasted for thirty five years.

Mark987 · Answer

I have only had sex with two virgins my first girlfriend and another woman after, and both times they were long relationships. I would NEVER deflower a girl just to have sex and leave her, that is sad if you do that.

AviatorTom · Answer

I've never deflowered a girl, but if I would have, it would have been slow and caring, just like the non-virgin woman who took care of me on my first time..

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If I ever get the chance to do that, I'll let you know!! Chances are, I'd be gentle with her and take my time to make it as nice for her as possible.

hafinjun · Answer

Well yeah... justice when you go to take a bandaid off you don't finger it a d lick it before you slowly pull it off do you. course not distract yourself and yank it's a brief flash of pain then it's OK .

handsomelad70 · Answer

The former, but really, a SEVENTY-YEAR-OLD man "deflowering" a broad? (Guess I'm not the only older chap on GaG!!!) I mean, exactly how young is this lady?

LiamS95 · Answer

There should be plenty of foreplay to get her ready, taken slowly and gently to give her the best first experience possible.

Beau2024 · Answer

That’s only happened once for me and it was soft sensual delicate romantic and loving.

stratford · Answer

Yes, or course I care. I want her to enjoy the experience and want to do it again with me

clampfan101 · Answer

I’d always have her well-being in mind. I’d need her to enjoy it.

Amur8711 · Answer

I never deflowered a girl, but I think I would take it slow and enjoy the moment with her until she asks for more aggression.

Anonymous · Answer

It should always be done with the utmost care and affection. That said, I will never do it again. Once was enough.

shortster · Answer

I have never done that before, but I would go at her pace.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Aim to make her orgasm as well as myself so of course I care.

Rfcdex · Answer

Yes, Sex needs to be slow and sensual for both partners, especially for virgins. That will make it relaxing and enjoyable for both.

dinojames22 · Answer

Care should be given. She should remember this encounter for the rest of her life (in a positive way)

Zlantur2 · Answer

I always care. I want her to enjoy and I enjoy seeing her satisfaction.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never had sex with a virgin.

elaphe · Answer

How should it be done?

In_Trance · Answer

Wdym how it should be done?

Celticwolf78 · Answer

First I'd ask her what she wants and go slow

lildkman1010 · Answer

I’m too small

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