My heart dropped and then he starts asking is everything ok when he knows I’m freaking out inside?

[chocneenee]

I am living with my ex or I don’t know what to call it. But he still wants to do everything together and still wants sex from me. He wants to talk to those other girl and talk to me and today her name popped up in his car and he tried to hide it but I already seen it.

[Anonymous]

This is a horrible situation, but I’m not sure what the question here is. Are you asking what you should do? If so, I think the obvious answer is to get your things together so you can move away from him and really be done. But it’s hard right now while you’re still under the same roof and there’s still unresolved feelings. If anything, I’d really say to stand your ground about the split because of how grossly disrespectful he’s being.

[chocneenee]

Currently working on moving. I have tried to tell him I will pay for things of course because I am living here and help with things but he always gets really mad when I don’t want to hang out or have sex anymore because of this other woman so I give in but I’m tired I just want to be cool help with what I can and not hang out or be sexual though

[chocneenee]

So I’m just confused on what to do it really sucks and he acts like I’m the bad person for getting my feelings hurt

[Opinion Owner]

I get your position for sure. I think you should focus on saving up and moving. Don’t engage with him more than you have to, be cordial, and bide your time. He shouldn’t get to be single, date other women, yet have you back at the house ready for sex and whatever else. If he wants to be broken up, abide by solely that and get ready to leave. But don’t let him have it both ways anymore, even in the times where you are in the mood or down for the casual sex. He’s using you at this point, and you can do better than that.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

What's your question, though? Was there a question you wanted to ask? It's clear that you already know what he's doing. Are you going to continue having sex with him?

[chocneenee]

I want to stop and I don’t want to hang out with him everyday like he wants but it makes him so mad because I tell him that but it hurts my feelings he thinks he can do all that with me and still talk to another woman

[chocneenee]

Only thing I want to do to be respectful is help around the house and pay my half for things because I am living here but that is not enough for him

[chocneenee]

And after seeing her name again today it is so mentally exhausting I’m just tired

[spartan55]

Why tf are you living with and fucking your ex? You never broke up.