Is it easier to just be a jerk to women until you can figure out how to be so they'll like you?

[Anonymous]

The most attention I ever had from women was when I was a jerk by accident. The way they looked at me. Smiled at me. Made so much eye contact. Got closer to me. Laughed at my jokes and told me I was funny.

It was like I flipped a switch in their brains. One second I was the creepy guy they avoid, fhe next second I was the most popular guy around. At least for as long as the after glow of accidentally being a jerk wore away.

I don't want to be a jerk to women. But like I'm at wits end. Women don't like me. I'm shy and awkward. Women don't want that. Women would rather have an asshole.

I feel like I should just experiment with being mean to women until I can calibrate the proper way to be.

[ohsheeT]

. That doesn't make any sense...

When you speak to her look into her eyes because before her mouth starts moving her eyes will start moving and that means she's talking to you with her eyes
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When she does talk to you listen to her words because they mean something she's telling you something.

If you treat somebody like a jerk they're going to treat you like a jerk back or they're going to tell you to get lost. So when you speak speak with your heart not anything else if you don't know what to say don't say anything at all that her talk


If she ask you a question and you answer it just answer the question don't keep going on because you're telling her more stuff than treating her like a jerk it's basically the same thing if you don't know how to communicate with girls learn treat her the way you want to be treated. It really is that simple don't lie don't bullshit don't try to make yourself somebody you're not just be yourself be happy be honest

[Anonymous]

Yeah, keep acting like a jerk and see how that works out for you.

Holy guacamole!

[Asker]

Might end up getting me a wife. Seems to me like being a jerk is the best thing to attract women.

[Anonymous]

What a bunch of rubbish.