How do some men play hard to get--or try to get a woman to think he is in demand by other women?

[Amy10223]

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Just realized no one really answered the question, just answered why men would do this.
If you haven’t answered or want to add an answer, please answer HOW men play hard to get, or make themselves look like they are popular with other women.

[Summeroflove]

Anyone playing hard to get is a idiot, especially because all you’re doing is showing someone I’m not interested and even if I was interested I’m not showing any effort.

People who want to play games play hard to get. People who genuinely want a relationship don’t.

[ProbablyClueless]

No man worth his salt is going to "play" hard to get; he'll just be hard to get. He'll have other stuff going on in life. He'll go on dates with other women. These are just things he'll do and he won't bother to tell the woman unless he's asked.

[WhitneySnow]

Sadly, this actually works sometimes. Especially if he really is in demand and not just faking it.

[Redstang88]

That’s were told you want. Nothing turns a girl off faster than a guy being open and honest

[Amy10223]

Can you reword your first sentence?

[Redstang88]

Oh whoops - that’s what we’re told*

[spartan55]

They aren't playing hard to get. Guys do not do that shit. Girls think they know otherwise despite being told over and over it's bullshit.

[thearchjoker]

Its very rare only the top 30ish present of men have even have a shot at doing such a play successfully and much fewer even try too

[Dargil]

I think it's very rare. We are too easily bribed by pussy.

[mstbooblover]

No idea, because I never had the idea of trying my wife to think other women wanted me...

[In_Trance]

They're not playing hard to they have better options and are stringing you along in case it doesn't work out. You should know this shit by your age

[NathanDavis]

I don't play around

[Bricealan]

I wish I knew?