Would a man try to make me his side girl by becoming emotionally attached to me? Isn’t that counterproductive?

[Jiiuuu]

Woildnt a man try to manipulate me into loving him, while staying detached himself?
someone said it sounds like this guy I know wants to make me a side girl but HE seems like he’s sweet on me. Even when I try to distance emotionally from him, he notices and he seems hurt. Guys I’ve dated haven’t even seemed hurt by me before. I definitely wasn’t expecting this I thought he would just move on and forget me easily. But it feels like he likes me and I don't know why. Cause he has a girlfriend.

[_Maya_]

So you are facilitating him being a cheater? Didn't you just have a new account yesterday? It is easy to spot because you choose public only and no anon for your first question. You post the same content and always in Guy's Behavior topic. Then you typically delete my opinions along with others that don't tell you what you want to hear. You are no better than the guy that is cheating on his girlfriend with you. You know it is wrong and yet you still do it. I've asked you this many times but I'll do it again... why can't you get your own guy? Why do you have to get involved with someone in a relationship? Maybe you should start thinking about that rather than how this cheater feels about you.

[CuriousHubby]

This can be manipulative behavior or he can just be dumb and get feelings for you. Not real or strong feelings but he can be attached to several girls. It's not love!

Honestly good luck and sorry it happened hope you can get away.

That girl is probably another one that was on your same position! 😞 Just got stuck looking him and he runs after another girl.

[spartan55]

You keep posting about this guy who has a girlfriend. Start fucking him and let your inner side chick free already. Otherwise give it up already. You've been his emotional mistress already, what's the difference?

[boggboss]

He is trying to make u feel u mean more then just being a fuck and he could at some point pick u over her its basic manipulation

[jahaims]

Anyone with a side chick is emotionally immature. His actions are because he is immature. He is trying to fulfill his wants and needs without understanding the what or whys.