The bible addresses this - you can't base a relationship on dependency and need - you have to base it on love and convenience - I don't mean gold digging - but if somebody is compatible with you and they live next door - don't try to date somebody in another state or country - practical and caring - thats what love is about.
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in my opinion it is a cool and loving way for a man to be ! a man who is an emotional man is the kind of man a woman needs to be with her for emotional support ! for everyone needs emotional support from time to time ! thanks
I'm not sure what you mean by being confronted with the same and being told you were just friends, since you say that you both had feelings for each other.
Do you mean that you were there for this girl and then she said "we're just friends"?
As far as I know being emotionally available is never a bad thing.
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There's nothing wrong with being emotionally available for a friend. But here's where you fucked up: you assumed that it meant something more when it didn't. If she didn't specifically say anything about having feelings for you, then you should not have jumped to conclusions thinking things had changed between the two of you. by the way, this is an argument for not being friends with girls who you are attracted to.
Up to a certain point, it isn't. Just don't turn yourself into a living napkin to wipe tears with
The question title, no.
The question description, obviously.Being emotionally available is a very good thing, even essential to a good relationship.
Being an emotionally available friend is a different dynamic than a partner. If you think you help her and she is automatically going to develop feelings for you, you're mistaken
Only if I'm attracted to them in that way.
Feelings can't be forced. I apologize.She didn't turn you down because you were too emotionally available, she turned you down because you don't turn her on or excite her, or because she doesn't see you as manly enough.
My number one requirement for dating is someone who understands me, or at least tries.
I don't know what is going on in your situation.My sexuality always has a say, so i would need to know more.
in a relationship with a girl of course, and it should be mutual
I think so. I would have told her to get a therapist.
Nope. Not in the least. Donβt make yourself emotionally vulnerable to femicunt bitches
You made yourself known, personally I would call that good.
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