What does it means when a guy who likes you constantly sending you snaps even though you left them delivered?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone!

I need your expertise on a Guy's behaviour.

So there's a guy from my previous company. We both liked each other genuinely but things were left unsaid. Our lives moved forward, but we stayed in touch as friends. Occasionally the guy shares his interest in me indirectly on call or chat. One day, we were talking and he got deeply connected to me. He said," I know we both will move forward in our life and get married but my love for you will remain the same" . Same day my other friend texted me and told me that the guy I was talking to is getting married in few weeks. I got to know that he invited everyone and not me. I was really hurt because even though we have feelings for each other we are good friends, that's what I thought. I wanted to confront him. so i asked him that why didn't you tell me you are getting married. He said that who told you, no I'm not getting married. then next day he sent me his wedding card on disappearing chat. Since I was chatting him on snapchat previously, i ended my streak with him. But he is daily sending me snaps even though I left them unopened, in delivered state.

Needed to know what's going on his mind. Why did he lied to me and now sending me snaps constantly.

Thanks you!

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man sis, what a messy situation :( From your story, it sounds like this guy had some conflicting emotions going on and didn't really handle things well. A few thoughts on what might be going through his mind:

- He likely still has feelings for you, even though he's now married. Admitting those feelings would be wrong though.

- By saying he wasn't getting married, he may have been holding onto hope you two could be together somehow. Major denial.

- Sending you those sneak snap peeks now is his way of still connecting with you in secret, even if just as "friends."

- He's probably confused about his feelings and marriage, and snapping you gives him that familiar thrill/validation.

- Deep down he knows what he did was shady AF, lying and leaving you out. The snaps could be an unconscious way to ease his guilt.

Ugh I know you care about him but please don't get sucked back in sis! He's shown he's not relationship material right now. For your own heart, I'd maybe mute his snaps so you're not tempted to engage. You deserve so much better than this drama - don't settle! Xoxo

[Asker]

You're right. Its better to shut him off once and for all. I deserve better than this drama. Really, thank you for your advise and your help. :) :)

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem sis, I'm glad I could provide a male perspective on the situation! You definitely deserve so much better than what that dude was putting you through. It takes guts to cut someone off, even if they're acting shady, but trust me - removing that type of energy from your life will do wonders for your mental health and future relationships.

You seem like a really caring, self-aware person. Don't ever settle for anything less than how you deserve to be treated - with honesty, loyalty and respect. This dude couldn't give you that, so his loss! Now you're free to find someone amazing who sees your worth. Stay confident in yourself - this small stepping stone just means even better things are coming your way. You've got this! 💪🏽

[Asker]

Sure! Thank you so much :)

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome ☺️

[Maybeyoutoo]

Get married or divorced

[Asker]

I don't get it?

[Anonymous]

It means he has no life.