Guys, why you cuddle after sex?

[Anonymous]

Why he wants to cuddle after we have CASUAL sex? If it's just sex why you bother cuddling?

[RavVid]

It is just sex but cuddling is enjoying a girl's body just as thrusting inside her is. I think of cuddling, hugging, kissing and even holding hands as low key sex. Particularly I like the girl to hold my penis as it is... acknowledging, is the best way I can put it.

I do feel I have possessed a girl afterwards and that is an emotion to enjoy. Plus there is enjoying her femininity as well. Post sex there are a lot of little things girls do that are cute.

After being given a lot of pleasure, it is impossible to not feel affection for the bestower of pleasure.

I think it is like having desert after a good main meal. Why wouldn't I?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh. My. God.

Why are you asking this? 😟
Why can't you simply recognise that people have feelings 😞

It is the most OBVIOUS thing in this world, yet, you seem... Blind. Why is that? Why?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

... unless you're not blind, unless your question has disguised intents. Which would explain then. Lol

[Asker]

I just think it's weird a guy cuddling someone he only wants for sex. That's all

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yeah, you are weird indeed, but why are you? 😅

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It seems weird to you because you assumed that sex can be totally disconnected from emotions, but that's not how humans work

[Finchie40]

Because he likes you more than just casual sex , he definitely has some feelings for you, especially if you both are good friends , he isn’t just banging you for the hell of it , he likes being with you

[Juxtapose]

Just because it's casual doesn't mean it has to be completely devoid of any human warmth or emotion whatsoever. You can still be fond of each other and then part ways.

[Anonymous]

Ya gotta keep up appearances, ya feel me. You don't cuddle she ain't likely to hit it again. Sometimes you don't want to cuddle, or you got to get going. And every guy has paid the price for it. So you keep up appearances at least enough make her believe you want to. Then you can dip without it costing you.

[scott04sa22]

I usually want to take a nap after I have sex with someone and they usually leave after the sex is done

[spartan55]

Because sometimes those things overlap. What does it matter?

[Asker]

I just thought cuddling after sex was a thing for boyfriend/girlfriend only, bonding emotionally

[spartan55]

Nope, not necessarily.

[John_Cobretti]

Usually I hear women complaining about men just rolling over to sleep or just putting their pants back and running away after sex?

[Asker]

If it's just casual I don't see the problem with it. I see a problem a man wanting to cuddle someone who he has no feelings other than lust

[John_Cobretti]

Oh ok, yeah there's no need to cuddle with someone you only want for sex

[DrPepper12]

Beats me. I just wanna brush my teeth and go to bed. 🤷‍♂️

[EnjoytheDay777]

Warm feeling, connection.

[Asker]

Emotional connection or just physical?

[EnjoytheDay777]

Both, but mainly emotional.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[EnjoytheDay777]

🤗🤗🤗

[thearchjoker]

its called emotions and instincts.

[Anonymous]

I like my flaccid penis to rub on your ass.

[jahaims]

He likes to cuddle