What’s wrong with this guy like he will say something that’s so stupid or embarrassing in front of everyone but still pretend like his you’re friend?

[Anonymous]

Like this morning he said good morning and everything than a min later we had to get our new schedules he blurts out in front of people and says you’re not part of this schedule or something along those lines, and this gay guy coworker was standing there and hugs me and says I got you’re back, etc what’s wrong with him when he be acting like he wants to be you’re friend one min and than this, than later today gays dudes friend was like awe his coming over here to see you you guys miss each other? I don’t understand what’s going on here

[spartan55]

I don't get it, so he's being mean because he said you aren't on the schedule? Huh?

[Asker]

He said you’re not included here

[spartan55]

Okay? That's being mean?

[Abbycado]

I’m going to dust off my crystal ball for this one. 🔮

[Asker]

Wym?

[Asker]

What you trying to say?

[Abbycado]

How am I supposed to peer into someone’s mind and determine why they said or thought something.

It could be a lot of reason.

[Asker]

Any particular reason you think

[Abbycado]

Trying to get your attention in the wrong manner?

Best guess.

[Asker]

I don't know he weird for sure can’t he be nice and get the same attention

[Alex-Snow]

I don't think he realizes how stupid his comments are. Is he hitting on you also?

[Asker]

He would try asking me to him some favors I don't know if that’s hitting

[Asker]

To do

[Asker]

He always has to come off mean sometimes

[Alex-Snow]

He has a weird way of showing it. How old is he?

[Asker]

30 years old

[Asker]

Yea right so I was a little upset from what he said and at work I called him over to check the trailer and I said imma close you in here and ship you to Mexico and wish you never come back I know that was rude he looked at me and said oh is that how you feel about me? And I said I’m joking

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe he got the message. Is he sexually attracted to u?

[Asker]

I hope so but I did say I was joking bc it looked like he was about to cry

[Asker]

He replied back and said he was joking too about what I don't know

[Asker]

Is he sexually attracted how am I supposed to know

[Alex-Snow]

Does he flirt? What does his body language say. Does he walk around with a boner near u that kind of stuff I guess...

[Asker]

Everyone has a different way of flirting so
I don't know he will ask me often times how to say certain words in my language and try repeating it or will ask how my day is and say my name

[Alex-Snow]

I guess he is trying to get to know u better

[Asker]

So basically it’s like why does he always have to say something stupid or weird comment only to me excluding anyone else why bother me only

[Asker]

Can he just mind his own business

[Alex-Snow]

Tell him to fuck off if it is getting too much

[Asker]

Shouldn’t he know

[Alex-Snow]

Some guys just don't get the hint the first time

[Asker]

So what does he think he will get out of this

[Alex-Snow]

I really don't know. If it is not sex I'm not really sure what is going on in his head

[Asker]

He hates me?

[Alex-Snow]

I don't know