I am emotional nowadays, but the guy I am chatting everyday supports, listens and encourages me. I want to do the same to him but he rarely opens up?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

A lot of times men don’t open up to women for a number of reasons. One being that whatever issues we have we’re used to handling. Two a lot of us know opening up to women could potentially backfire on you so we don’t. Three I think we’re strong mentally in handling things so we don’t need to talks about a majority of things. I think if he’s got major problems he’s better off talking to other men.

[jahaims]

You have to build more trust first

[Asker]

this is helpful, thank you

[In_Trance]

So what's your question

[Asker]

ahhahahaha, i just want to know if he is being wary of me? or maybe he needs time to open up to me?

[In_Trance]

That's something you should ask him and get the actual answer

[Asker]

you're rightttt thank you

[Anonymous]

Men know better than to open up to women.

[Asker]

that sounds rude, but be happy my friend, may you find peace

[Opinion Owner]

Men can tell women about their day, but do not ever tell her about your demons and insecurities. Best case scenario they see you as weak and don't respect you subconsciously. Worst case scenario they weaponize it and use it against you or gossiped straight to their friends. Im not being rude. It is what it is.

[Asker]

that sounds tragic, as for me I want to know about the flaws of the guy I like so that I can treat him better and have an open communication on how to overcome our issues and insecurities, cause I am not a perfect partner too, I want to accept, love, and respect my man and not disclose those sensitive topic with anyone but him. But I hope you find a girl that will respect, accept and love you brother 🙏