How do I stop flirting on job interviews?

[Anonymous]

So as I entered this interview, I quickly noticed he liked me, he was touching his hair and trying too hard to impress me, of course, I found it funny and played along, pretty confidently, flirted a bit, at the end, he no longer wanted us to stop talking and told me I made his day, as he has had a very stressful day, that I brightened up :)

Of course, I get the job, but now I feel like he will expect me to like him or something? I am just flirty and like to use my feminine power on a man when I see how much he likes me… I have a guy I like… I really need the job but I have already done it so many times, I wonder do I get the jobs because I am a flirt? I get the job with females too, but with them, I usually befriend them and chitchat.

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I had a situation like that I flirted too hard until I got asked out by the boss and then I quit because it felt awkward, I was just flirting , had zero interest

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Got the job and a dinner right after my first work day, at a very nice place, felt super nice, had a great fun. I have a guy I like though and he has the wife. He told me he thinks I have a magic power, I am kind, cute and a great professional and he just wants to make sure that he can keep me and I won’t choose someone else to work for and since it’s my day off today, he wanted to give me a good end of it.

[RandomUser1000]

"I had a situation like that I flirted too hard until I got asked out by the boss and then I quit because it felt awkward, I was just flirting , had zero interest "

Couldn't you just have said no?
Or at least start with that.

If you have a job you like, you shouldn't need to quit just because someone asks you out.
But maybe you had other reasons to quit also?

[molonski2]

You know what? I wouldn't worry about it , the goal was to get the job , you got the job , does it really matter that much how? And flirting in a job interview that didn't cross the line = that's just fine.

[lightbulb27]

Good grief, you should be very rich in time.

time to go into the movies!

[AviatorTom]

You could wear frumpy clothes, no makeup, and messy hair to an interview. That will help you to not flirt, but it won't help you get the job.

You'll have to convince yourself to stop flirting, and be super professional.

[andreasderjuengere]

A job is a job because it's a job.

If there's any personal affinity, then it can be dealt with AFTER ''you'' got that job.

How you can stop it - be professional, of course.

In any other case, ''you'' are not better than any random hooker.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Just don't flirt. Also, since you got the job, your flirting in the job interview shouldn't come up as an issue or a problem as long as you're actually good at the job.

[slatyb]

If you get the job, just do the job. You don't owe him a date.

[MikeTheBartender]

If you got it use it... You didn't lie and say youd date or anything like that.

[Staximus]

I haven't seen you post any questions for a while and was wondering if you were ok

[Asker]

Yeah, just missed being roasted.

[Asker]

Which is what’s going on in the comments.

[Staximus]

Use every advantage you can, your competition will

[Asker]

I am not using nearly any advantages that I can.

[jmsinaz]

You must try to harness your inner whore and get over yourself because "he" probably doesn't "like" you.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Remember it's a JOB interview, meaning you''re attempting to be hired at a professional company, thus you must act accordingly.

[NathanDavis]

careful... with angry wives, lol

[ehatsham_hussain]

For that you have to be sincere and straight forward, you have to change your behaviour.

[Jennz6]

I’m sure it comes naturally

[DryGermanGuy]

Don’t I know you from somewhere? 😏

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy Mmm, yes I know you

[Bklynbadboy12]

Don't stop that's gonna get you the job🤣🤣🤣🤣

[HoldingtheSword]

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