I'm confused. Is this only friendship or something more?

[Anonymous]

He has a girlfriend. He has pursued a 'friendship' with me. It seems to be more to me. He gives me goofy smiles, always looks up when I walk in. He makes me coffee and brings me chocolate and always checks in when I have a bad day. He wants to hang out with me on weekends and even go on a trip together for 7 days. I said I don't think I can do it as I don't think it's right for the girlfriend and also I like him too much and it makes my heart sad. He said he's not that kind of guy and he hopes he didn't lead me on. I'm confused. Did he ever like me more than just friends or has he just backed up into the safety net of his relationship saying it was never like that. I feel like an idiot for doing the right thing. Did I do the right thing?

[SueShe]

You did the right thing to keep your distance and to make him know that there will not be anything more than simple, platonic friendship with him.

You don't want to be a home wrecker, do you? Actually, you are not doing enough to let him know that you will have nothing more than simple friendship and that she should stop paying so much attention to you.

It is fine if he wants to hang out on the weekends but only if his girlfriend tags along. It is not okay to go on a 7 days trip even with his girlfriend because you indicate that you have taken too much importance in his life.

[Flower7]

Stop trying to be friends with him and stop calling him a friend. He sounds like a cheater.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he was just trying to lay some pipe. But you rejected him so in order to not look stupid he played it off as I’m not like that, sorry if I led you on. Why would a man want to go on a trip w a girl for 7 days alone together unless he was into her in some way? Especially if he has a girlfriend. It’s because he wants to get intimate w her. If I was you I’d drop him as a friend.

[Anonymous]

He is probably looking to cheat on his girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

What makes u so attracted to him