I don’t know how to feel or believe he is into me?

[Anonymous]

He is super attractive, handsome, toned, really nice body. Looks as if girls swoon over him. Well for me, I’m just a regular girl. I have a some of jiggle on me. we’ve been talking for quite a while now. I’d say for four months. I’m supposed to go see him in February. I already booked my flight, but I can’t help but to feel insecure. I’m ok looking. I don’t believe him when he says he would take me out in public. It always happened to me in the past They say they would take me out for dinner or something and they never end up doing so. it’s hard to believe because I know the saying when it says if something seems too good to be true it always usually is. I don’t even know why or what he wants from me. When there are girls near him in his area. Obviously, I know I’m probably not the only one he’s talking to, even though he says, I am. but why waste time Wanting to see me when he has many other beautiful options. he knows what I look like his FaceTime me he knows I don’t have a tone body, But I just don’t understand.

[Staximus]

Why are you even worried about some guy that lives far away? If you have to fly to go see him you're a dumbass

[Asker]

I know thank you honestly I really needed to hear that

[Staximus]

I'm sorry to be so harsh but it sounds like you're getting your hopes up but setting yourself up for a big disappointment.

[Asker]

No, you aren’t being harsh. I meant it genuinely that I really needed to hear it. We are 100 miles away so it does make sense. Maybe I am just a little clueless sometimes.

[Alwayreckles93]

https://youtu.be/5yYksNejXs0?si=Q0ZYbFc7PLZFGPqu

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I guess I’m so clueless and naïve. I don’t know what to make of the video you sent me. I really appreciate it though.!! 💜💜💜

[Alwayreckles93]

Your welcome. It's not that your naive people and society never talk about this type of situations. I was there once with my ex. I have learn the hard way. Please love and appreciate yourself get to know your self first. You could be the most wealthy and most beautiful. We can not forced a men to love us.

[Alwayreckles93]

Your not being naive The problem here is your just being blinded by love. Love makes us make wrong choices.

[Asker]

I appreciate you so much!!! I listened to it over and over again. It really did help me genuinely. I realized. I’m debating now if I should even go and see him and fly over.