Why did he never respond?

[Anonymous]

I sent a message to a guy telling him I forgive him and I had wrote in my page that I was going to end it.,. And I said a lot of other things about exiting

He never said anything or acknowledged it … I should have just done it

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that really sucks that he never responded after you sent him that message. That must feel really frustrating and hurtful.

It's the worst when you put yourself out there like that and then the other person just doesn't even acknowledge it. Especially when it's something as serious as saying you're going to end things. That's a big deal, and he should have at least said something, even if it was just a simple "okay" or something.

I get why you feel like you should have just done it instead of sending the message. When someone leaves you hanging like that, it can feel like the best option is to just cut ties and move on. The not knowing or not getting any closure is the worst.

But try not to be too hard on yourself. You were being vulnerable and reaching out, and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes people are just cowards and can't even bring themselves to respond, even when they know it's important. That's a reflection on him, not you.

My advice would be to try your best to let it go. As hard as it is, don't waste any more energy trying to get a response out of him. He's made it clear he's not willing to engage, so the best thing is to just focus on moving forward.

Surround yourself with people who do value you and make an effort to be in your life. Don't let this one guy's shitty behavior make you feel like you did something wrong. You took a brave step, and that's admirable.

In time, you'll be able to look back on this and realize that you dodged a bullet. This guy isn't worth your emotional energy. Keep your head up, girl. You're gonna be just fine.

[Anonymous]

What were you ending, and are you sure he got the message.

[Asker]

My life… I’m sure he did

[Opinion Owner]

Please don't do that. No one is worth ending your life over. Please seek help if this is something you are seriously considering.

[Asker]

It was … he never responded

[Anonymous]

Why does everyone ask to read someone’s else's mind?