Why does every single man come at me in a sexual way?

[Anonymous]

I dress pretty conservatively. I am quiet and kind of innocent looking, so I've been told! Why is every man I meet, including friends... coming on to me in a STRONG sexual way? I don't act inappropriately towards them at all.

What am I doing wrong?

Am I giving off a sexual energy that I don't know of?

Updates

1 y

Wow, lots of negativity on this app lately.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they sense you’re desperate? Don’t have a husband? Boyfriend? It could also be that their reading it wrong. A lot of women think that because a man talks to them a lot, laughs, jokes, that he’s flirting w them. But in reality he’s just being friendly. So maybe that’s what these men are doing when it comes to you. Some of these men may just have no respect for boundaries. What exactly do you mean when they come to you in a sexual way? Explain. How do they do this?

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm completely desperate. Great answer thanks 👍

[Anonymous]

it's possible that some men are misinterpreting your kindness or friendliness as sexual interest. It's also possible that you're encountering men who are simply disrespectful or have boundary issues.
If you're feeling uncomfortable, it's important to set clear boundaries and communicate your expectations. You may want to limit interactions with men who repeatedly cross those boundaries.

[virtualwasp]

Doubt that by the way you typed the question. You write like a parody of someone else

[Asker]

I guess you're welcome to your own opinion... even though it has absolutely nothing to do with my question.

[virtualwasp]

If it wasn't about the question then why would I reply to it.

[Saiesh30]

Not you dear. Nothing wrong in you. It's us. Men. We are at fault.

[molonski2]

You are giving off immense sexual energy and constantly ovulating , its a huge power that you must face upto.

[molonski2]

Update = Note , my answer was extremely positive , and I think many of us notice this feeling over time , not always related to look... Just How is it that strippers make much more money when ovulating? And thats a fact.

[Asker]

Dude, the sarcasm was bubbling over in your original answer.

[molonski2]

Thats not true , I'm talking about a sexual tension , this is something that cannot always be calculated as such.

[Asker]

I'm sorry... I assumed you were being rude.

[molonski2]

NO..
I love to explore the unspoken , and thats what you are putting out , now you may well be underating yourself? Who knows..

What do you think is the answer?

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes women who give off a happy and friendly energy can be perceived as flirty.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are surrounded by Horny mfs I guess

[ehatsham_hussain]

It's natural weakness of men