Why do all married men hit on me?

[nancyajram]

hi guys I'm a 21yr old pretty looking girl,i go to a medical school..my problem is that all the married staff members try to hit on me..one of my staff member is around 34yrs of age,married and has a daughter..he was always good to me,supported me,cared for me and my emotions,gave me the best marks...and also offered me a job..i used to think that he is a dignified man because I knew him as a staff from 3yrs..he never tried to get physical or something but as soon as I started working with him he began to flirt with me..he used to tell you are sooooooooooo beautiful any guy would fall for you,you are very naive...he was always interested to know who all tried to hit on me..i trusted him so much,i shared all my personal problems with him...recently I went for a month vacation and I saw a change in his attitude he isn't coming to job regularly...earlier he used to come almost everyday just to me,drop me home..in a way even I was infatuated by him..but the other day one of my friend told me that he is just using me to get his work done..i asked him directly ..he said noooooo,its not like that trust me..i would love to spend time with you its just that people are spreading rumors,people are thinking that I'm spending too much of time with you. PLEASE TELL ME WAT IS HE UP2

[authentic]

"he used to tell you are sooooooooooo beautiful any guy would fall for you,you are very naive..."

You got at least one of the reasons to the question you asked above.

I wouldn't say naive, though. Innocence is the word I would use. To some married guy who is bored, that is an even bigger attraction.

You probably don't want to attract married men, or mess around with triangular relationships which means hell in a nutshell. If that's the case, it is important for you to clearly state your intention with guys by answering this question "What kind of guy do I want ?" You don't have to advertise your answers on national TV. But you need to know yourself. Then focus on your answer until the guy you want shows up. Make no compromise. Engage in no mediocre relationships.

When you have that kind of clarity, you will naturally emit the kind of frequencies that attracts the guy you want to you, and not the kind you don't want.

[roadkingp]

Very well said!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he had a little crush. Other people saw that, started to talk. It got back to him. He wants to change those perceptions while still having a friendship with you. You are every wife's nightmare. A beautiful, smart, single woman, that works with their husband. Watch your back, you may soon see the back of the unemployment line.

[Anonymous]

It never ceases to amaze me how many young women just become "infatuated" with these married men without even thinking about the wife and the kids. It's as if you are saying that you were falling in love with him but didn't care that he was married at all. He realized his boundaries, didn't like the rumors; any smart man would just step back and stop that type of behavior. Why would he risk it all just to have a little fling? Don't be so naive. If you knew any better, you would have told him ages ago how inappropriate his behavior was.

[wally]

try to stay away from this if you like your job nancy. what's you'r last album?

[Anonymous]

ur probly hot that's why .