His friends are watching me?

[Anonymous]

I attend this gym where I go most days. There's this guy who is in his 40s who I think likes me but has never spoken to me. He gives a lot of eye contact and stops working out whenever I'm around. Always putting himself in positions where he can see me from across the gym. He will stop working out and chat with his many friends the whole time and watch me workout. I have a sense he has told them all he might like me. A few times I caught him staring when I wasn't looking and he looked away in frustration. He's watched me drive out of the parking lot and quickly got out his car and leaned on it to watch me drive away. But recently I have found he sends his friends to workout near me. I know his friends faces now over time and it's the same guys. One of them isn't descreet and always gives me a lot of eye contact and even smiled one time. When he isn't at the gym and his friends are there it feels like they follow me around the gym or workout in close proximity to keep tabs on me. Ex I was on the treadmill and one of his friends was on the opposite side of gym working out and next thing I know he's near me and sitting on a machine not doing anything. Whenever they are around they stare. I'm not conceited, it's just a feeling I'm picking up and yeah I'm not sure if this is normal behavior or it's obsessive. I don't even know why he would even like me, I don't feel like I would be his type.

[spartan55]

Wow, you honestly think he has his friends follow you around the gym?
Why would he do that?
by the way, no guy can 'get whoever he wants '

[Asker]

It feels like it, maybe not, Sorry I didn't know you were there too. He is handsome and fit and has a business. He has a full head of hair and many interests. He seems like the type women would want I don't know

[spartan55]

I don't need to be there. It is highly unlikely that a guy in his 40s would do that. And again WHY?

[Asker]

Okay maybe he's not doing that, but he sure told them bc they look at me and become silent when I walk past with him there and not

[Iron_Man]

how does that make you feel that he likes you? Do you like him back

[Asker]

He's handsome and very fit, but he's the type of guy who can get any girl. I just wanted to know if getting your friends to watch someone is normal behavior and why, I don't talk to anyone at the gym.

[Iron_Man]

well that’s kind of odd having your friends keep an eye on you but if you’d like the guy, andwanna get to know him better smile and leave yourself available. Leave yourself open.

[Asker]

I literally have his number hahha

[Iron_Man]

now?

[Iron_Man]

How?

[Asker]

He has social media business account

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok so the the best thing you can do is smile at him make yourself available be approachable, so he will come up to you and finally talk to you instead of just looking at you all the time doing nothing

[bunny234]

how about you just walk up to him and start up a convo if you're into it, life's too short, if he isn't into it, fine, go to another gym lol.

[IslaTheWitch]

he is immature AF... :D

[Asker]

Haha I agree