My boyfriend recorded a phone conversation and sent it to his family member, how should I go about this?

[Anonymous]

He pissed me off and I told him not to go to my apartment, he was suppose to me meet me there and help me move. But he honked the horn in my face while I was moving boxes in the snow. Anyways he called me over 20 times, called from different numbers and everything. When I answered the phone I was cursing him out, telling him not to go to my house, literally screaming because I was pissed. While on the phone his demeanor was very calm, trying to act like he didn’t just blow my phone up and antagonized me. His family member showed up to have a “woman to woman” talk. Basically told me not to be a bitch and to stop calling him names, didn’t even care what he did whatsoever. This happened back in January and it pisses me off to this day.

[Stevepro68]

To use an old horror trope from the Amityville horror... Get out!!! If this is how problems are dealt with for him and by his friends and family. Get as far away as you can as quickly as possible

[Anonymous]

You need help. Probably best that he dumps you.

[Asker]

How? Him sending a family member on me while played victim is normal to you? Months later he kicked out a piece of glass and was bleeding badly from his foot, he called the same family member again n that person came by trying to fight me 🙄🙄🙄 very deceitful 🐍 🐍

[Opinion Owner]

I get you’re upset about the recording. But something tells me this isn’t the first time you’ve acted this way. You sound like you’re a handful.

[Asker]

A man watching me move boxes in the snow and honking the horn at me meaning “hurry up” vs getting out and helping me. That pissed me off. Him acting like he was going to my place after I told him not too for honking his horn at me also pissed me off. He antagonized me then made me seem like the crazy one by recording the phone conversation. He’s the handful. But you wouldn’t know anything 😭🤣

[Opinion Owner]

So then that’s your fault for picking a shit bag. Usually the type of man a girl picks say a lot about her as far as how she is. So you’re probably both just as bad to each other. This doesn’t sound like a stellar man. Probably doesn’t have a good dating relationship either. I’m guessing you don’t either.

[exitseven]

It is illegal to record somebodys voice without their knowledge. You can have him arrested.

[Anonymous]

Leave his ass.

[Asker]

I did. 5 months later but im done 😭🙂‍↔️

[Opinion Owner]

You might be able to take him to court for recording you.