Boys, Please Respond! Boys, Do you hide your crush on someone and act like you don't like them?

[Anonymous]

Boys, Please Respond!

Boys, Do you hide your crush on someone and act like you don't like them?

If at all you do this, to what extent?

I like someone, he behaves like he doesn't like me at all. But sometimes when i look at his eyes, i just feel something different. Don't know if i used the right words to describe the situation.

Most probably he doesn't like me, but still i'm thinking about him…

[Anonymous]

That is almost exactly how I acted around my crush. The more I liked her, the more I over thought everything. The more time I spent around her, the more I liked her. The more I liked her, the worse it got.

I thought I was giving her too much attention, so I did a few things to not seem like a creep. In my head I couldn't tell whether she also liked me or was just messing with me because she thought I was a creep. In retrospect, I was a complete idiot.

I never intentionally tried to be rude, but upon some reflection clearly that is what I did. We also had crazy eye contact between each other.

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm... sorry, but I assumed this was going to be asked by someone under 18. Even then... the answer would be "only if the guy is super immature, and doesn't have a clue how to talk to a girl."

This is something little boys do. (like elementary school kids). It's the "I pushed her in the mud puddle because I like her, and don't know how to show it" thing..

That is just not a thing normal adults do. It's weird for an adult to do that (if he did like you).

I don't think you should want a guy who would show he liked you by acting this way anyway. It's just not promising for how he would be if you were to get together.

I'm gonna say he either doesn't like you; or if he does, that you should be put-off by him acting this way. Either way, I think this is not great.

[Anonymous]

You’ve never wondered if maybe he’s just wondering why you keep staring into his eyes? This question is silly. No one can tell you how someone else is exactly feeling, only he can do that. So unless you plan on asking then let it go. If he were interested he has the ability to make a move just as you do.

[spartan55]

No, that's what women do. If we act like we don't like you it's because we don't like you.

[Chazmatazz269]

Why would a grown woman ask such a question of boys?

[LiamJHayden]

I haven't had a "crush" since I was ten, but if I am interested and we are both single I will approach.

[Wiredone]

I've never done that. If I liked someone I approached her and asked her out

[MannMitAntworten]

As a boy I never did.

[TallAnon]

Crushes come and go

[Pterodon]

Boys do men don’t