I swear men think being called a creep is the worst thing they could ever be called. I could call a man just about anything else and its fine but the second I call a man a creep they'll have a meltdown đł like why is that?
Let me give you an example. I read an article in a running magazine written by a female runner, she was talking/complaining about how another male runner made her feel uncomfortable, mostly because he was going the same pace as her on the jogging trail. She never expressed this feeling to him, yes she felt that somehow he was supposed to know that him, on the same jogging trail in a public park not in an isolated area should automatically know he was being creepy.
A guy sitting reading a book in a park, on a bench may be considered "creepy" depending on what else is around him. Again public area, and if it was a woman no one would mind, but because it was a guy...
Yet "creepy" is equated with "rapey." And a guy doesn't have to have any ill intent, may not even know the social fopaux that he has committed. And honestly it's about attention or perceived attention from the wrong man. Behavior that may be acceptable from a guy who is perceived as "cute" is switched to "creepy" when he is not, so it's also a social commentary on a guys looks, no one likes to be called out as ugly in public man or woman.
Being called a creep makes men so uncomfortable because it's so vague and we know women tell other women about that stuff.
It's almost never accompanied by any real explanation for what's wrong or how we could address the problem. The extent of it is usually "you're creepy. Get the fuck away from me. I don't owe you any explanations for how to not be creepy, you creep."
We have a woman telling us that something about us makes her feel unsafe, like we're a threat to her wellbeing, and that usually happens when we're doing something that we either thought was completely normal or at least not objectionable.
And we don't know what the problem is. And we know that she's probably going to tell other women about how we committed a sin that we don't know what we did wrong.
I mean... guys don't want to be creepy and the kind of guy who gets called creepy lacks awareness of social cues. So you gotta figure that, if he didn't realize what he was doing was a problem before he got called creepy, he probably not going to be able to identify the problem on his own.
Usually it's socially awaardness that cause the feeling of creepiness to women, if a man is awkward he's going to look creepy (often).
Ther's a guy I thought was a bit creepy and weird but then I released he was just very shy and socially awkward so I'm pretty sure awkwardness / shyness (not being comfortable around people in general cause people to see the person as creepy).
Itâs definitely a strong label. And itâs also worth mentioning that other people are hearing that word without any context for why the person is being called creepy. People hear something like that and they just arenât going to want to deal with it. Itâs easier to avoid the allegedly creepy person than to look into a situation that isnât any of their business.
No, a manâs worst nightmare is to be alone. Thatâs why they fight tooth and nail against any and all labels that could lead to that outcome. Doesnât make those labels any less true, but they still fight.
u From personal experience, they hate being called a simp even more than a creep. Theyâd rather be accused of creeping on women than be accused of respecting & loving women. Itâs pretty sad.
Tbh proper simping has little to do with respect
Or weak
for the amount of times these manosphere incels used this word against i can confirm.
I don't care if they call me that to be clear but they think this is the ultimate dunk on any guy who dares defend a woman for any reason.
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Yes, I agree. It has such a negative connotation, and people tend to believe the woman in this situation. And "creepiness" can have serious legal reprecussions coupled with the severe damage to your reputation. I'd honestly rather be branded a "racist" then a creep
Yeah, and you'll always find other racists to have your back, most people won"t support "creeps"
It is mine. Tbh I stay as far away from that as I can and get called a creep I've seen people get jumped by other peoples exes soon after. Like its an insane reality but in general it could be worse I guess. I've definitely found myself in moments where I couldve made movez but it felt off like I realized I was staring too long. didn't seem to bother her but it was voices in my head telling me how fucked this whole thing was and I needed to bail before things were hairy. Its not as common as it once was. But I prefer to be more hesitant than others and some of y'all womens do appreciate it apparently so thats good.
Come to think of it, Iâve never been called a creep before but I could see being triggered over having the âcreepâ label but, if itâs just a playful remark, I canât really see getting all that upset about it.
Being called a convicted rapist would be much worse.
Honestly my nightmares entail worst stuff than being called names.
That said, all the feedback I got in my interactions with women has been positive and respectful.
Thank you.
I had to play a "creep" sinister character recently (actually my second TV role!), was kind of weird hearing people saying they could barely recognize me lol.
I would think being falsely accused of rape would rank higher, but should of being accused of being a criminal, yes, especially if the guy is not one in any way.
@Apple1996 how?
I always consider the source of any insult. The less I respect the person, the less weight their words carry. So fine, call me a creep, an asshole, or a jerk. I know who I am and I probably don't give a fuck about you. Please feel free to disappear from my radar.
Probably because it can cause some reputational harm to a man when you call him something like that and then tell other people who don't actually know him.
But it's far worse when you call him terms like abuser, rapist, etc., which can also cause massive amounts of harm to his life in many ways. Especially in the court of public opinion when you're telling other people. A man considers his reputation to be important and it's difficult to build up a good reputation, while it's real easy to tear it down.
Your response of "it's in his aura" in a thread from someone else here on your question makes me think you're pretty careless when it comes to how you label men. That kind of thinking is why men, especially young men, are increasingly avoiding women.
It appears that way considering it is a reportable offense here, and don't dare call one a dumbass; that really triggers them big time.
You have to laugh.
I have no idea though as a child a teacher said I creeped her out and I was like 7 years old so I never understood why she said this it don't make sense xD
Being called a creep is emotionally damaging on the same lines if a girl was called a slut or a slapper.
It's labeling us as something we don't like to be called just because of how we look, if we are unattractive to you and we glance over to you, we are a creep to you, if it was an attractive guy you'd smile or blush.
Yes maybe when engaging in some sexual activity but would you like it if a stranger called you a slut or slapper
In public in a non sexual engagement I mean
Well most females do care, just like us guy feel really crap when women call us a creep, it makes us feel horrible, disgusting like we should live under a rock and die
Usually the guys worrying about being called creeps are actually creeps
I think itâs like any other word. Whatâs the intent when itâs used. I donât mind being called a creep. I call everyone a creep but all that changes when you call or get called a creep and they mean it. That changes everything. Everything can be said as a joke and everything can be taken as a joke. But when someone is serious and says the same thing itâs no longer funny.
My wife and my friends call me a creap all the time. It doesn't bother me.
It's lost some of its power because it's so overised, like all buzzwords. No guy wants to be called a creep though.
I don't know. I channel that fear of being labeled a creep into... You know... Not being a creep. Seems to work out alright.
Way too many seem to not care from my experience
Being aggressively pursued by a gay man is their worst nightmare lol
It's MY worst nightmare to be in bed with a fat broad !!!
H**L to the NO;thats a stereotype that we black men want these chubbettes.
No, my nightmare is being and dying alone and unloved.
@Apple1996 Probably correct... and rightly so...
It undercuts his character and reputation, which are some of the most important things for him
Yes, thats the worst! Women can fill in the blank about what ever they can imagine.
No, they seem quite comfortable with the title.
here's the thing callin Men Creep's is like Men calling Women Bitche's or Slut's or Hoe's for any Women who think that's cool Damn spendin any time with em because they clearly have the subconscious desire to be disrespectful this shit is so Damn self-explanatory if the accusation fit's it is what it i know thing i won't be no creep to any Women they even try that shit with me automatically i'm blockin em default just off the audacity
I think being called a coward would be worse.
Just sounds more insulting I guess than other names to be called it seems, wouldnât like to be called that to my face
I honestly don't give a fuck what a girl calls me because I know the next girl is likely going to get me laid
LoL what m
Not at all. This term is a temporary trend-word. I am not even sure if those who use it know what they actually try to say :D
The worst thing to call me would be... perhaps...
''Conformist'' :D
Don't want to get into trouble with the law.
No, but it is to have false allegations & accusations spread around like they are fact, only for people to believe them.
It depends on the man. Some men probably think it means you're into them. I know this guy Pajeet who thinks that way.
His country will become a super power any day now.
No. The worst nightmare is to be called a rapist.
not really. mostly cause women completely destroyed the meaning of that word by just calling any guy they vaguely dislike or find unattractive that.
you're doing the exact thing i was critiquing xD thanks for proving my point.
have you ever heard that saying, to you the world is full of assholes to you personally, maybe you're the asshole? i think that works with creeps as well. maybe you're a creep and that's why your perception is like that.
*if to you*
well there you go. you're most definitely a creep AND you're using the word inflationary to degrade it's meaning. caught in the act again xD
https://m.youtube.com/shorts/Fx0ddTJbFNE
Video of me creepin đ
Just donât call me late for dinner! The rest usually doesnât matter!
No and i dont think I've ever been called a creep. Im just shamed for being a bitch and a queer.
Idc about what they will call me as long as i'm having those fresh apples from you 😁 🍎🍏
u What is it that men do to earn the label of "creep?"
An "aura" is merely a matter of your perception. You see what you want to see.
m What's the female equivalent, I wonder? "Pedowoman"?
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@Apple1996 yes
No. My worst nightmare is that 2 out of 3 humans in Hell are women, and that I might actually be going there with them.
Only words. Doesn't society have more issues than calling a guy a creep.
If it is, must be nice.
it implies you give off a vibe that repels women
Yes it's like a personal opinion someone has that often comes from actions that were meant from positive intent and hope to evil and hate.
Lol I think most men don't really care much
@Apple1996 you are right some guys hate it
It's the deafening hanging unsaid connotation, accusation & terror.
I have never thought of this insult to be much of a burn and I don't know of any guy who would be much offended by it either. It's like... so what?
I could care a less what people call me as long as there are no legal implications.
No, we just don't fancy the jailtime that can come alongside it
No. Anyone can label anyone.
Because he knows you're correct. LOL
Did you think it was a compliment?
Nope not for me it isn't
Yea 😂
Contemplation swisscide is forefront and centre!
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Hello im creep 💀
I am a gentleman..
Yes, I agree!
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