Is it dramatic im upset my friend keeps asking random guys who is hotter when we are out?

[Brunetteandglam]

[_Maya_]

I would not call that dramatic. That is a reasonable response to someone that does that. It sounds like your friend is wildly insecure and needs constant validation. My worry here is that there is likely a hint of her thinking she is superior to you in looks and perhaps in general. The reason I say that is because someone that is insecure and needs reassurance would not risk asking people who is hotter if she didn't believe that they were going to say she was a good majority of the time. So I bet that she believes that you are not as good looking and banking on guys affirming that she is the "hot one". That is narcissist type behavior and not a good friend. I would distance myself from this person without hesitation.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She’s male-centered and most likely will throw you under the bus if it means she gets a sliver more of male validation. Even if she apologizes the behavior will continue in different ways. I’d distance yourself from her as you’re only there as a placeholder until she gets a boyfriend

[OneViewpoint]

Your friend appears to be really needy and insecure. Apparently she craves external validation from random men she doesn't know. I can see being a little upset and annoyed by that going on constantly. Maybe limit your interactions with insecure girl. You aren't going to change or "fix" that.

[Brunetteandglam]

She gets all giddy and excited when they say her and just leaves me sitting there feeling like I was put in a competition I didn’t even ask to be in. I don’t understand how her other friends tolerate this. It actually is awful as she doesn’t give me a heads up she just sits by then asks me to come then blurts out the question

[OneViewpoint]

Her personality development stopped around age 12, LOL. No social awareness or it's being overridden by extreme insecurity and she craves that external validation. Just keep dropping comments that make her doubt her own looks, she'll go away. 🤣

Seriously, she's someone to be pitied but I can see how she's annoying as hell to be around.

[236color]

Dramatic, no I don't think so. Let me guess, she's knows the answer to the question. So why does she want to rub it in your face. Also, any guy that answers this question is a dumbass. Set your "friend" down and tell them to stop being a bitch, and if she doesn't, find a better friend.

[Brunetteandglam]

Or maybe she’s just jealous and insecure? I don’t think she’s hotter she’s just blonde that’s it

[matchaaddict676]

that sounds like a really insecure and shitty friend and ur valid for feeling upset about it. those types of friends are honestly so exhausting and draining to deal with. she also seems like the type that would crash out if u treated her the way she treats u.

[DryGermanGuy]

Instruct a few guys to show up and if asked, pick you. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

[Brunetteandglam]

Even though she did it to me I would hate to put another girl in that position it just seems so evil in this generation where there’s so much insecurity going on

[DryGermanGuy]

Yeah, but in this case she’s pending for a bending as Futurama‘s Bender remarked.

[Abbycado]

That would be annoying. Don't blame you at all for not wanting to hang out with her.

[Brunetteandglam]

She doesn’t even give me a heads up she just sits with them and asks me to come then will blurt out the question, and she will get all excited and happy when they say her. She’s like 34. I find this behaviour crazy. I would feel terrible putting another girl in a competition she didn’t even ask to be in?

[Abbycado]

I agree completely. It would be crazy awkward.

[zagor]

No, it sounds like she is kind of an a-hole.