Why would a guy find it hard to give a girl closure?

[Anonymous]

I mean if the girl has asked for clarity but he doesn’t want to say why is that? In the meantime he continues to give me mixed signals.

[Anonymous]

Because to us men we don’t really need closure. We just move on. So we figure you don’t need it either. Which is a mistake, but it’s also the same thing women tend to do to men. The other reason is because “closure” just leads to more questions, a non stop roller coaster of questions. Men don’t want to deal with that.

[Anonymous]

He might not need it himself. Depending on how the situation unfolded, he might not want to give it to you either.

[beenherebefore]

I think the mixed signals are the closure you needed. He's not sure about you. That's it.

[Asker]

I know what you mean, just every time I try to get over it he comes back. That’s why I just want him to say

[beenherebefore]

He won't tell you. If you truly want to get over it block him from contacting you until you do it you'll always be in this limbo.

[BarryLiverstone]

She’s right. Why haven’t you blocked him?

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be for many reasons. Would need much more backstory

[In_Trance]

It's not difficult; it's not necessary

Closure is overrated. Move on

[Asker]

It’s not necessary to have backbone and be honest.

[In_Trance]

Well I can't speak to the specifics about your situation but nevertheless, at the end of the day you need to move on no matter what is or isn't said

[jahaims]

He isn't emotionally healthy

[Sebastian100]

Maybe he isn't into you