Why are black girls the least desirable? (Page 7)

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Why is it that black girls are the most undesirable? (For non-black guys)I'm seeing a lot of negative things being said about black women in the media (mainly online). I even saw a forum thread dedicated to how black girls are the ugliest. Sure there are racist people that will say that other races are ugly, but black girls get the most heat. I've seen a lot of black girls ask similar questions, and people just think we're imagining things. I mean, look at the marriage rates. Black women are the least married race. I've heard people say that even black guys don't want black women.

This issue is causing my already low-self esteem to plummet to uncharted territories, even though I think I'm pretty compared to most black girls but not so pretty according to regular beauty standards (if that makes sense). My school is mostly white, but the few black girls that go there don't have boyfriends, and to me they are pretty and seem intelligent. Boys aren't everything and at our young age it's better to be more concerned with our academic and career goals, but I feel so discouraged when it comes to dating (keep in mind that I live in a predominately white area).  

In conclusion, I would like to know what it is about black girls that's so unattractive? (BE HONEST, answer anonymously if you must, and don't feed me any crap about "preferences" because in most cases I find that there is underlying racism behind this so-called racial preferences).

Anonymous · Answer

Mostly, because they have bad attitudes and think everything that goes wrong in their life is somehow the fault of racist white people 200 years ago rather than taking a hard look in the mirror and admitting that they're human and can make mistakes, too, and need to take responsibility for their own successes and failures.

lovejrich · Answer

Because the ones that get there shot at meeting a good, classy, handsome, educated 100,000+ brother play some dumb game of "i'm too good for you, I'm waiting for my NBA ni***a"...and that stuff only rides once...i mean really ladies you don't even give a dude more than a min 30...Black women can blame themselves for not being able to find a good black man...they need to stop being so defensive..cuz that just is not  attractive...

Anonymous · Answer

This is a question I ask myself many times. I am a black girl and I feel that if I was white (or any light skinned race), I would get more attention from guys. Sure there are lots of people that don't mind black women, but I believe that there are even more that don't like us just because they don't like our darker skin and call our facial features ugly. It also doesn't help that I've never seen a large group of people consider black women hot, pretty, cutest, ect, but I've seen it for every other race of women. Even on online dating sites, in the race wanted sections, I see men (and women) check off every race but leave the black box unchecked.

I like multiple races of men, and I'm so sick of having every non-black guy I've gone after jump over me so they can get with the light skinned girl. What the hell are we supposed to do when there's so many men who don't want us because of this. This has done so much damage to my self-esteem it's not even funny.

luvlife101 · Answer

Always remember that people will talk about you no matter what you do or who you are.  People tend to hate what they fear or don't understand.  Forget your color and be confident in your ability.  For every 1 person that loves you, believe that 2 may not.  Simply focus on the ones that do and forget the rest.  Your prince is out there.  Just be yourself and keep God first.

Anonymous · Answer

Google that: "black women are the most beautiful "and then you will find good opinions about women. I'm a white guy and I don't find white girls attractive as much as black. I really like what Big Dre said. My lovely girlfriend has so much warmth in her! She was born in Africa and I'm from cold Poland. I love my Safyia!

victoiras_secret17 · Answer

well I'm a girl, mexican brazilian  hawaiian cherokee and italian, I date black guys they are very respectful. and I live in nor cal and have black friends, they are not ignorant, loud, unattractive, or "ghetto". they are actually pretty smart. they are nice no attitudes at all. actually nicer then most my white friends. but I don't know I'm just saying my black friends are all respectful young ladies, and attractive also.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree back in the 1990s and early 2000s black Girls were in movies and music videos and thought of as desireable now you don't see them in movies and or in music videos. You hear them saying their ghetto and other stereotypical and They only see biracial light skin blacks more attractive than full blacks. White guys say they like chocolate but I've been seeing a lot of them dating biracial ones. As I was watching old movies black women were seen as best bodies and top unique faces. Even black men are dissing black girls. The black women are not even in blackmen music videos unless they're white or Hispanic or biracial. Its really sad. I barely see Hispanics dissing their women. They don't even exclude them out their videos. Black women have it hard. So much racism and hatred towards them.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll keep it straight, no offense to black girls, but I just don't think y'all can compete with blonds, brunette's and Asians. The competition is fierce and I don't see black girls, being as good as, let alone being better than them.

Anonymous · Answer

I sympathize with you, but you are wrong: there IS something called personal preference that both you and I are free to exercise. If you stopped blaming your misfortunes on racism, and took responsibility for your own actions and beliefs, you'd be much better off.

Anonymous · Answer

There was this black girl at my school who got all the men. She wasn't hot all at. She was cooler than sh*t! And you don't talk like stereo types which is good.

Be confident. My biggest turn off to blacks is the same as rednecks. They talk like they are uneducated. This is such a turn off.

I also hate the culture. Rap, R and B, BLAH! Make me throw up, I don't like country either...

Anonymous · Answer

hey there I'm a old white guy lol read your post and I think some yes some black women are sexy and pretty I have been with a black lady before I very much enjoyed being with her alot.Now any thing that wouldn't look good on a white person wouldn't look good on a back woman. Hair, lips, size and ATTADUE maybe the most importance. hope this helps Ray

fatman2fitman · Answer

after having dated some, it is not their looks that turn me off, it is attitude. So many have spent so long with their mother telling them men are worthless, or have had a bad relationship that they are bullet scarred. The minute I see the attitude, I'm gone.

lilmspriincess · Answer

I think black women are SO beautiful (I'm mixed white& latino) but there are also many that are not attractive just like in all other races, I'm sorry that you feel that way and we should really all feel equal and beautiful, we are all beautiful in our own way no matter what color you are.

WoAh1 · Answer

straight up though I'm gonna put myself out there ok first off there loud as f*** for no reason(if your not that cool but most are) I have no problem with skin color as long as there hot and if there like ghetto as hell that's soooo unatractive comin from a half black person

Love27 · Answer

Black women are beautiful. White men and other non Black races overrate their women in looks if you ask me.

The only time I see a beautiful white woman or other non Black woman is usually on t.v in reality they are average looking or simply cute but not "omg white/Asian/Indian women are hot" like many men act like.

Anonymous · Answer

even though I love the boot and a girl with a little meat on her bones, I'm only attracted to the light skined black girls. Like straight from africa black is not what I'm after and its cause, there nagina's look dirty... call me a retard but that's what I see. A lot of black women think there a DIVA and need to be loud and is my way or the highway type. it p*sses me off to when the AX you a question and not ASK you one... for god sakes act like someone tought you how to speek.

No divas for me...

Anonymous · Answer

well in my school the majortiry of black girls are rude, loud, ghetto and aggresive. But there are many other black girls that I like hanging out with. The "good" black girls are outnumbered by the "bad" black girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's partly because a lot of different countries and cultures were built on the fact that the lighter the skin the more desirable the person is. I feel like that's so deeply ingrained in cultures that they're not willing to see beyond someone's skin tone

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly because most black girls are laud . They stink . And there ashy ..Well that could be true for one black girl but THAT DOES NOT MEAN ALL BLACK Women ARE THIS WAY! Also people do not date to make a statistic...They date because they are interested in each other... Is it mostly Black men with white women .?.Or white Men with Black women? Its mostly White men with a black women... ! And you know what's mostly in this country? WHITE MEN! So why would you write this post and downgrade yourself ? hhhmmmm jus Sayn !

xoxo,

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blackcatfever · Answer

I love black girls...They are typically built the best of all races and they are awesome in the bed...I'm white

Anonymous · Answer

Your so right though! I always ask this two, I'll see a fine ass guy going for a stick. I even asked some of my friends and they said that black girls are so loud, noisy, arrogant, and rude, but what I don't understand is the reason they say this is because the only ones their looking at is the one's who act like this, I know so many black girls with class, brains, and their pretty. Yeah they don't wear designer clothes but that don't go past their personality. But I was in class and this girl, lord! She was threatening to beat the boys up and she was wearing boy clothes and she was as thin as a white girl, and they was whispering to me "Daum, she fine doe." Um...no. and sweet heart look at you, obviously a guy would want a girl like you, you smart and have a future it seems,the only thing wrong with you is the low self esteem, so go on with your bad self. And about the racism, yeah their some racist mother f***ers but yo be yourself, theirs plenty of men out there.

Anonymous · Answer

I think what is so unattractive about black women is the way they look and act. They always act so pissed off and they are loud all the time and they seem to like bossing there men around, they act mannish and white girls don't.  Maybe there are some pretty black girls somewhere but not where I live. They all have big noses and nasty looking hair and they just look dirty its like they don't try at all. Them being black doesn't bother me if they would try to fix there self up a little that would help. Most white girls even if there not very pretty they try but black girls don't seem to care. I know this isn't true for all black women but its just what I see here in north carolina.

Anonymous · Answer

African women aesthetically speaking are the least attractive. They have a much higher testosterone than all other races which means there is less difference between the sexes. The hair is unattractive and thus has to be straightened or a wig made of indian hair has to be worn. The facial bone structure is usually Prognathous which means it juts out in front of the face like an ape. The eyes are usually bloodshot and bulging..I could go on but I think I have made my point. This is why the most attractive race is at the moment being encouraged to breed with the ugliest and least intelligent of the races. Because it will destroy the gene pool.

Anonymous · Answer

oh well damn. the basic message I get after reading this is: black women suck in pretty much every way, unless they are east african (for that one guy).

question asker, how are you holding up? I'm just checking because you said you had low self esteem. are you okay lately?

chiefnavarro · Answer

well they have a different culture some would call ghetto. it a class thing. few are educated and they tend to be loud. I guess they haven't assimilated for the most part and refuse to

Anonymous · Answer

im not racist whatsoever...i love all kinds of people..black, white, hispanic,gays.etc...blue orange..okay okay I'm sure you get the point...

but if you really notice, there are a lot of black people that are ignorant..

but then we have mexicans that think they are white and walk like they have something stuck up their asses..then we have whites, some just think that their shit don't stink...

but really I only know a few african americans that are actually nice and not so ignorant...

Anonymous · Answer

To me, it is their attitude. It is a stereotype, but they are often loud, rude, aggressive and trash talking.

mhuttyone · Answer

Me white from philly mostly white part love black girls I love there booty body shape how there real all but there hair And what I don't like is how their hair is most of the time more important  then any moment I'm engaged To a black women and I love ever thing about her

lonelysadguy · Answer

to me a girl has to have that certain look I love no matter what race they are (difficult to explain here in words) plus I'm not racist in any way but I do know a lot of folks who are and I tell them to f*** off...hope my answer helps

Anonymous · Answer

Hmmm. Black women tend to have big ass, dark skin, and huge t*ts. I'd go for the androgynous petite Asian female look. No black females for me, they have none of those features that I'd find attractive. And many of them listen to that annoying rap music.

xmonster0 · Answer

i was going to comment but for some reason  there is almost no way to say anything about this post with out  being mis read as racist so sorry I think you are on your own on this one

benjammin09 · Answer

I think its because white guys think black girls who are good looking wouldn't like them. To tell the truth, I've seen very few black girls date white guys, which is sad because there are some who are very attractive.

snowflake123 · Answer

Not at all I am a white guy think that black girls are so sexy and many of my friends do as well don't know were you are living at all.

Anonymous · Answer

a lot of my guy friends just think that black women are too pushy and needy. and this is coming from both rases. I did an internship at walt disney world and the topic came up a lot and even with my black guy friends they would say that there just too loud and out there sometimes. I'm not sure why or if this is true, just what I've been told when having the conversation with a mixed group of people

southernbelle94 · Answer

black woman are often intimidating. they tend to act more like black men. using crude sexual humour and so on. they aent ugly but have more rough features than the typical caucasian girl who has soft features... but often it is just up to the guys taste in woman,.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not attracted to black girls because every black girl I've seen or met has had an attitude over the stupidest things. They flip out for no reason. I just can't handle that. So it's an attitude thing for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't really see myself with a black female due to the fact things don't click with any female that's black that I come into contact with, I have been with acouple but its not a turn on to me.

saulito · Answer

please let me know where you and your friends are...ill find you some latino guys including myself that will sweep you off your feet...

PatriceONeal · Answer

A ton of sentimental bs answers and ideas floating around. However society reflects that women don't ever seem to follow these "judge a person by the individual" ideas they preach so often. It's usually judging a man on everything besides his personality or morals. Don't let them lie to you, go outside and accept reality, women are incapable of self reflection, so trust your own judgement first.

dragonkid · Answer

f*** what them racist ass people say. I love me some chocolate.

rocketship · Answer

Black women have on average larger vaginas than any other race of women. This is a turn-off for most non-black men. Studies have documented this size difference.

thatssotera · Answer

I think there is a book by Toni Morrison about this... Something like the Bluest Eye is the name of it. I haven't read it and I'm hoping to definitely this summer.

loser23jtw · Answer

I don't think that's a very good generalization.

I'm a white male, and even though I don't find black women especially attractive, I don't find them particularly unattractive either...

So I don't think race has anything to do with it...

I think it's a particular person's own preference. (I know you said not to say that but I promise you I mean it)

I've even had a crush on one or two black girls.

Don't let it affect your self-esteem.

Because it's different for all boys.

Anonymous · Answer

American blacks act differently from other black people and not all American blacks act ghetto and have big ghetto butts. So generalizing like that doesn't make sense, people need to travel outside their country and meet people and you all will realize that black people are very classy. frankly I find all Americans dull and ignorant, not just blacks.

alfadude · Answer

the media is has given black women  a bad name , whrehn you tink of a black woman you think  , bitches , young pregnat women , prostitutes

drloodz · Answer

I personally like lighter skin.

Also, I think it's only natural to be attracted to your own race. Being repelled by a different race, is a different matter. I'm simply not excited by black women, and that's that. I really don't know why.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sure it won't mean anything coming from me. But as a white girl I am really jealous. I have always thought most black girls were really pretty, and strong looking. I'd kill to have those looks.

neveralways · Answer

i'm not black and I think there's lots of hot black girls. the difference is that some people are just racist.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not skin color. It's a combination of culture and facial features. Mostly culture in my opinion.

Men generally want nice, sweet, supportive women for the long term. Black culture tends to make women into bitchy entitled harridans.

seanpce · Answer

What it is about black girls that's so unattractive? Absolutely nothing ..They are sexy...Come to Europe and you get a lot of interest from white guys:-)

Anonymous · Answer

Gonna be honest .. The ones that I've met there a bit on the hard side. Uhh *looking for a better explanation*  I don't see a lot of soft, sentimental cute type black girls. But when I do its pretty sexy

Anonymous · Answer

I'm an Asian guy, and I'm extremely attracted to black woman. I just love their voluptuous bodies. I've gotta be honest, though dark skinned is fine, I would prefer lighter. However, if the girl has a beautiful body then it doesn't matter.

Yossarion · Answer

I have dated black women and do not feel any of this.  If this is true, is this why so many black men love to have trophy white women?

Anonymous · Answer

Do you live in a KKK neighborhood? What I have noticed is usually black women don't like white guys... I would date a light skinned or mixed (half black and white girl) in a heartbeat. I relate most to black women.

DDiaz · Answer

I think black girls are beautiful. I am much more attracted to black girls than white girls.

FaceInTheCrowd · Answer

That isn't true... at least not for everyone. I have known some black girls that were smokin hot, and amazingly modest about it  :)

WhiteGermanPretty · Answer

CURLY HAIR - 1

HUGE NOSES - 1

BIG LIPS - 1

GHETTO ATTITUDE - 1

BROWN EYES - 1

The list goes on and on and on.

Is funny how that black girls need to change his curly hair to be more european look , need to fix her nose , her lips and all in order to be a little pretier , let her default. Curly hair , big nose , big lips and see what happen. hahahaa

MrsBee · Answer

There are black men out there that loves black women. In fact, I married a black Hispanic man who does loves black women. Also, I know there are white, hispanic, and Asian men that love black women, but would not date or marry them. Why? Because they are afraid of being ostracized by family, friends, and outsiders. I know black women are beautiful, just don't feed into the ignorant stereotypes that are going around. I sure don't... to me it's child's play.

getyourlife4 · Answer

I'm sorry but whoever you are you need therapy. I don't know where your getting this idea, but it's the biggest load of bull*hit. Men of all cultures are interested in black women, and that your pretty in comparison to most black girls what exactly does that mean, because it sound like have internalized colorism or something

pitchblack · Answer

whut the f*** are you talking about  , black girl are the most spontaneous and I shouldn't have to mention the body they possess . so quit thinking you ain't cute and pretty .  I am an architect and all my customised characters in game are black . black skin is liek silver it reflects liek a black shield. peace   .

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