Bummed out. Why didn't he pick me?

[Anonymous]

This guy I really like made out with me and acted really into me and said he wanted to hang out so he didn't want to go any further, and I really got my hopes up. But then he backed off and didn't really do anything and it's been a few weeks and I heard he is trying to get some other girl to be his girlfriend. What the hell? Why would you act interested in me..did you meet someone else like 5 minutes later? :[ I'm sad... I like him so much.

[Catie101]

he's probably a player, he will ditch a girl for another like that, gets bored easily and doesn't feel guilty about ditching girls or taking advantage of them. its nothing against you and its nothing you did, its about the kind of guy HE is. I've witnessed some of these guys, one hung around my friend for literally a few days (while he would attempt to flirt with me and other girls). he hooked up with her and never texted her again, wouldn't answer her calls, until she put *69 in before she dialed so he couldn't see who called... then months later he was telling me and this guy how he cheats out all these girls, then had the nerve to ask me out. I called him an ass and left.

[Seashell73]

If he didn't chose you that is his problem! Start looking for someone who is interested in you and not an actor! Or just simply ask him WHAT'S UP!? Or as you put it, "What the hell?"!

[ItalianBro]

He probably didn't feel that you liked him. Did you ever start conversations or ask him to hangout? I have stopped talking to girls that gave me weird signs. As I talk to one girl, I might actually like her but she is confusing me and I can't read her. So I give less attention to see if she will be more forward. If she isn't then I figured she didn't care and I move on.

[Sokar]

Sometimes the feelings come, stay for a while and then leave and you're stuck wondering what have you seen in that girl. You're not chemically compatible both ways. That's how it works, sorry.

[Greenjarhead]

Did you pursue it, like text him first or ask to hang out?

[Asker]

yeah, after he asked me to hang out and kissed me I texted him the next day to say I had fun. He said he did too and that was it. And then a few days later I asked him to hang out but he couldn't because he was traveling for thanksgiving. And now he basically avoids me and I hear he likes some other girl. She kind of looks like me, although she seems more confident and really snobby. ha ha ughhh...

[Asker]

i feel embarrassed because before I found out about the other girl I kinda confronted him when he was drunk/high and said "we should really hangout if you still want to.." and he was apologizing and stuff and saying he's been so busy with finals. But yeah :\ I guess that was just an excuse.

[Anonymous]

It's called life in the big city