How can you tell if a guy is checking you out in a shy way?

[Anonymous]

How can you tell, if a guy is checking you out in a shy way?

[upood]

he'll always be glancing at you, and you may catch him a few times. Go near him... if he's looking down or has trouble looking up at you/in the eye then he's shy... you can tell when someones purposely not looking into your eyes and when they are ignoring you because whatever. He may position himself near you but won't look at you... ie: you move to this room and he is in that room too doing something consequently... or he'll walk by you to get to this one place where he"s technically not supposed to be but he's "doing something" there near you.

[Asker]

Yeah sounds more like it, this guy trains at the gym. he voice breaks near me or blushes and turns away, he looked at my eyes and chest then glanced, I saw this guy talking to his co worker near the desk and he was wearing a gray beater, wasn't working out just glancing and turning red, when he passed by he would stare, he was playing basketball, when I passed by the window he stared he was near me while I was working out on the machine.

[upood]

we have a winner ;) get that baby!

[upood]

you're not canadian are you?

[Asker]

Lol get what!? &no I'm not :P

[upood]

get that boy girl!

[Asker]

ill try :) haven't seen him often at the gym

[KingofSnitches]

He'll be looking at you when he thinks you're not looking. He might blush if you catch him staring. He may also act indifferent or cold when you approach him. It all depends, really.

[Asker]

Does it have to be checking you out or means something else?

[KingofSnitches]

He finds you attractive if you catch him staring at you. That is all. To actually like you, you'd have to get to know each other and overcome the shyness.

[Jaleel]

hahaha used to be one of these guys. I look its OK, you make eye contact I freak out and look away. I see you passing by its OK, once you say hi or hold eye contact I get butterflies and my heart beats at a 100mph. if I sit down its OK, you sit next to me I become stone. hahahaha funny isn't it? :P

[Asker]

Aw haha, does that mean you like the girl?

[Jaleel]

yes lol. my shy side comes out every now and then (btw I'm going through this right now hahaha).

[Asker]

lol oh ha ha :P

[Jaleel]

so I guess you can say its a personal exoerience lmao

[Asker]

yeah lol

[BCRanger10]

He'll glance for a few seconds and then look away. If he's looking again and you catch him, he'll blush and turn away immediately or pretend like he was looking at something else.

[Asker]

Is that a sign of checking you out? or could it be something else?

[upood]

i do this to everyone since I am shy in general and don't want to seem like a creeper... are you sure those are signs?

[Asker]

I act the same to upood,

[lovelymeforever1]

yes, but shy people like me do that to everyone :)

[Asker]

I do that too :)

[BCRanger10]

Yes, that is what shy folks do. Based on my conversations with girls here, it's creepy only if you make suggestive faces or comments.

[Asker]

like

[Asker]

but if he seems normal to others but not me thennn...

[Shpongolia]

If you see him and he quickly looks the other way, or looks down at the ground. And he does this repeatedly.

[Asker]

yup sound like it

[Shpongolia]

Guys who do this sometimes to feel ashamed of looking at an attractive girl. But if she thinks he's cute then she should at least smile and say Hi.

[Asker]

I never did :/ cus I pretend I don't know he's staring

[dreamishobby]

he'll try 2 look at you from the corner of his eye. and if you catch him looking at you he'll turn or look away!

[Asker]

Do they get nervous or red?

[Anonymous]

he will take glancing looks at you, if you make eye contact he will break it quickly, if you are talking or flirting with him he could start to blush yes

[Asker]

He did break it quickly! so what's that mean?.

[Opinion Owner]

it means he is nervous and is worried you caught him and what you will think of him now. I say talk to the poor boy

[Asker]

Aw! Ill try! his friend gets red too why?

[Opinion Owner]

what they both get red if you talk to them? depends how shy they are exactlly, if its extreme it could be jsut because a girl is talking to them or it could be because of you see if the same thing happens when other girls talk to them ie if they get red

[Asker]

Ive never talked to them, only when I pass by they turn red

[Opinion Owner]

well they could like you or may have been talking about you something like that or just a general reaction to girls just see if they do it to other girls

[Asker]

Seems like they only do it to me often, seems like the one that always stares has interests in me

[Opinion Owner]

well talk to that by he seems like he is not going to do anything can be a simple as hey are you in **************** with me? etc I'm sure you cna think of something

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm too shy too, I don't know if I would fool my self

[Opinion Owner]

well you can overcome your shyness an attempt to talk to him or you both can continue to do nothing and trust me I been in the spot where I choose nothing and it felt a lot worse then the times I've been rejected

[Asker]

yeah same here, I don't know if he's actually interested

[AstroChicken]

catch him glancing at you, if he looks away or has an "oh snap!" look real quick...GOT HIM!

[Asker]

haha yup :P

[AnavelJay]

Ask him if he was.

[lovelymeforever1]

lol, he'd be to shy to answer

[Asker]

Lol yeah he would