Normal Body Size: Why Average Is... Hot

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Well, ladies, here we are again. Another motivational Take to help you guys love your bodies...

Just kidding. This isn't me trying to make you accept your bodies. Like them, don't like them, whatever the hell you want to do.

No, this isn't about you. This is about me, a normal guy who likes typical things. You know what I like? I like this:

And this:

And this:

You know why those bodies are hot? Because they belong to a woman.

So whatever average metric you use to describe yourself, know this: good for fucking you. You have a body, a woman's body. That's worth at least a double take from any guys worth your time. If they don't like the way you look? Well, then guess what?

Who gives a flying fuck? I sure as hell don't.

[Sunflower19]

LOL. Reading some of the comments... Makes me give up even more on guys. They all end up saying, acting and doing the same thing. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. I'm Chubby and I'm not ashamed of it. I am starting to eat healthier and exercise for MYSELF. not for a dude, because its not even worth it. Guys come and go. Just remember theirs always a better Man out there than you.

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

There is no reason to give up hope, just because you're chubby. Black men and Latinos seem to have a preference for thick girls. At least that's what I see in California.

[Sunflower19]

@BlondeBlueEyes84 pffft. Guys of all races look down on chubby girls in New Mexico. Its different everywhere I guess...

[RainbowFanGirl]

I totally agree with you.

[VincentValentine]

I also agree with you. I didn't think so many guys had such strong preferances. I hope whoever they end up with puts them in the right place.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Noooo! Don't give up!!! (Unless you are lesbian: you have a good reason then). Anyways, a lot of these guys are immature. They don't realize that there is something a thousand times more important in a relationship than the body: the person.

[scooogy]

I'd even take you as you are, because you already look attractive enough to me

[kxera]

Just here to see what everyone says in the comments.
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[Nice_Guy_Last]

Honestly... so am I lol

[bloodmountain1990]

While this statement is cliche, it's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What's attractive to one may not be attractive to another so there's no definition of what's attractive and what isn't.

Some guys find a women with a fake tan, lots of piercings and dyed blonde hair very attractive but I don't and to each their own. Are they wrong for being attracted to it? No but that's just their preference.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I would never criticize men or women having preferences, but my point is that if someone doesn't like the way you look, then they aren't worth you trying to date them. Change should happen because you want it for yourself, not because someone wants it out of you.

[GirlsLie]

I like this take and the girls in the first picture have really nice shapes in my opinion lol.

I've never understood why people idolize skinny people, there's no wrong with being skinny, lots of skinny women are beautiful. But it shouldn't be ideal, the only thing that should be ideal, is being in a healthy weight range.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I like girls based on who they are as people (that includes having eating disorders, that's a big no). I just think that it's never who a person is on the outside that determines their worth. It's always who they are on the inside.

[TheSpartan]

Fat or overweight women aren't on the healthy bodyfat percentage range.

[GirlsLie]

Who said they were? lol

[GirlsLie]

That's an awesome way to think. Also I love this take because it shows men can like a variety of women, that's something I try telling other women all of the time.

[Anonymous]

Personally, I find thicker girls attractive and super skinny girls not so much, but not too thick. Girl #2 is very attractive to me and girls that have her body profile, I'm the most attracted to. Girl #1 dosent do as much for me honestly although she is hot. I tend to find average girls the most hot to me also. I don't know what it is. Maybe its cause really good looking girls are full of themselves and have every guy in town after them. I'd rather give the girl attention who dosent get it as much. Plus theyre more attractive to me for some reason.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Are you trying to say that every woman has a nice body?

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[Random_chick_2384]

Hahaha 😂😂

[SweetAndSassy14]

Wtf 😆😆😆😆

[creepycreeper]

You know why this body is hot?

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Because it belongs to a man.

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[Nice_Guy_Last]

If he doesn't have an eating disorder, if his weight is due to some genetic or medical problem, and he was a nice man, I'd consider dating him.
So long as a person wants to be healthy, even if it is hard or impossible for them in particular, I can come to love them for who they are, and, since their body is an inherent part of them, I can love them.

[creepycreeper]

Aren't you a sweety.

[SoulGirl]

Lmao I died reading this

[creepycreeper]

@SoulGirl R. I. P. The power of Christ compels you...

[Random_chick_2384]

This is so funny but mean! Made me laugh!

[ellacxo]

Some of the comments here make me feel really insecure because even though I'm young (14) I have quite a large bust (38C) and what you would say a "curvy" body but most of the guys here are saying that they only like skinny girls and other body types aren't attractive and it just makes me think that when I grow up or even now, men aren't gonna like how I look...

[Sircomplainsalot]

Personal preference varies form person to person, i'm sure you won't have a problem. Different people are attracted to different physical traits

[RainbowFanGirl]

Same here, but don't worry. There is someone out there for me. I'm not "skinny" and I managed to find a boyfriend. You don't have to be bone thin to find a guy. Don't listen to the men here sweetie.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Some people can't accept reality. The national (American) average is 5'7", 155lbs, size 10 waist, and 36DD. In other words, a damn sexy woman (you're all damn sexy, but I rest my case).

[PeachSunset]

Its hard to tell whether you're trying to be nice and reach out to insecure women but covering it up with "i'm trying to be a bad ass to attract the ladies but i'm really coming off as a douche who just wants to get in a girl's panties attitude".
Or if you randomly just decided to tell everyone what type of women you liked and to reassure women that you don't give a shit about them.
Ok...

[Nice_Guy_Last]

First part of both thoughts.
Look, I just wanted to express that I accept that women have the right to changing the way they look, while also expressing that I like the way that girls look. Also, if a guy doesn't like the way a woman looks, then the woman doesn't need to feel inadequate.
Also, I was kinda out of it when I wrote this, and looking back, it's apparent that this is a pretty misleading and incoherent Take.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I apologize for this sub-par Take.

[PeachSunset]

Its fine, do what you want, I appreciate the take but the "i dont give a fuck" and "this isn't me trying to make you accept your bodies" just kind of contradict your point :P

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Well, it isn't me trying to make you accept the way you look. If you don't like the way you look, that's perfectly normal. I was only trying to get across the point that you should only make changes to your appearance if you are the one that wants them, not someone else.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but men fail to realize that us women, skinny or not, come with stretch marks and cellulite, too. You can't use these airbrushes images as a guide.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Sorry, I just went with the first couple of images on Google.

[Opinion Owner]

No need to apologize haha :)

[Jxpxtxr]

I get the idea behind this take and I think it's cute of you but I did some research and found the actual average weight of an American woman is 166,2lbs at a height of 5'5" - means she's quite overweight with a BMI of 27,6 .. I'm not saying people don't have the right to feel comfortable in their bodies if they are overweight but since this implies serious health risks I don't think it is something we should promote either.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I think what needs to be separated is the lifestyle and the body. Eating disorders are bad, being big is not. If you are heavy, and you eat healthy and work out, but just can't lose the weight due to medical or genetic reasons, you shouldn't be damned for your appearance.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Also, I didn't realize the national average went up in weight and down in height. Last I remember, it was 155 lbs and 5'7".
I wonder what the national mode is (with 2.5 lbs and 1" variance).

[Jxpxtxr]

Wel, frankly it's quite impossible to be big (except from body frame) if you eat right and work out. I watched this documentary once and the nutritionists said that about 98% of cases of overweight and obesity are due to the wrong lifestyle and eating habits. of course there are people who have a slower metabolism and tbh I have some obese relatives in my family so I could just gain weight and argue that it's due to my genes but that's just a lazy excuse.

[Jxpxtxr]

Also it's America, women of 5'7" would be rather very tall there and obviously America is struggling with people being overweight and obese a lot a lot..

[nfigure]

Indeed, average height for a woman in America is 5'4". :) Also, health findings from the most recent 5 years or so have found that about 69% of Americans are overweight or obese. =O It's so important for people to be more aware of proper dieting and exercise.

[nfigure]

With that said, a bigger woman is not necessarily unhealthy or unfit. I've seen many thicker women who were clearly fit and healthy and looked good. In addition to BMI, there is also body-fat percentage to be considered, actual physical capability in fitness tests, etc.

[ThisDudeHere]

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[Nice_Guy_Last]

What shit again?

[ThisDudeHere]

As of late, gag is having an abundance of takes on body types.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Ah, I see.

[KAZ-2Y5]

Bless you the male population needs more people like you

[TheSpartan]

"You know why those bodies are hot? Because they belong to a woman."

So, you find a woman hot as long as she has a vagina? Lol There are no other physical standards?

It's cute that you're trying to make the ladies feel good, and even if there is the slim (no pun intended) chance that you're being honest about your preferences, these are not the preferences for the great majority of men.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

No physical standards at all really.

[TheSpartan]

Then you aren't representative of the male population, and, thus, it doesn't make sense for you to be writing takes representing the average male.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Oh? Representing the average male.
News flash kid, this is about what I like, and I was saying that if someone doesn't like the way that you look, then that is good for them, but you shouldn't get hung up on what others think of you.

[aamy811]

I really liked this article. I wish everyone was more body confident

[luvmeggers]

I don't get this though. I have an average body, but i look even smaller than these women.

I have the body of the lady who is in the black bikini at the farthest end but a bit smaller

im naturally like that, so what does that make me then? not average but not skinny?

[Nice_Guy_Last]

It makes you you. The point isn't to judge yourself based on how others look, it's to judge yourself based on how you look at yourself. If you think you are too big, or too small, or need some change, do it because it will make you happy, not to appease someone else.

[luvmeggers]

I like that

[UncompromisingAI]

You're attempt to be indifferent while seeming to be cool just makes you seem like an ass. What's the point of this take? Your points are all over the place. At one point you're saying average is hot then you say who care what shape you are then you show examples of women with thicker shapes.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

The point is to get comments. (It worked)

[RainbowFanGirl]

You made me feel good about myself... Thank you for not being judgmental about every single piece of cellulite I have. Thank you. I wish there were more men like you.

Nobody is perfect.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Hey, cellulite is just a formation of cells in your body. To hate them would be to hate your heart, or your brain, or any other organ.

[RainbowFanGirl]

Haha. Very clever and true.

[YourFutureEx]

Another debate over what's beautiful and what's not. Not participating.

However, just talking about the title, "Why Average Is... Hot"
If you're average, then you are better than half of the WORLD!! So, why not it's hot...

[Anonymous]

My insecurities aren't about my body, but my face. The problem is the face is more important than the body for a lot of people. I've been getting made fun of most of my life for being unattractive. I keep myself fit and healthy but a lot of people tell me I am ugly, including my mother and sister. I've also never had a guy interested in me. I've never had a relationship.

[Longshot]

Self confidence will carry the day. It is more important than physical looks.

[red324]

I think a good looking body could cancel out an ugly face and vise versa.

[Opinion Owner]

I have a nice body. I work out and eat healthy everyday. I also make sure I wear flattering clothes and I keep my hair nice looking. I go to the salon regularly to keep my eyebrows maintained, but people still say I am ugly. Yesterday when I went for my daily hike, I passed a couple guys resting at a picnic table by the river. One of them said to his buddy: "Hey your luck is about to change, there's a smoking hot girl for you." and the other guy replied with: "Oh yeah maybe after some shots and in a dark room."

I get those kind of comments ALL the time. It doesn't matter where I am or how I look. I get them all the time. So it's easy enough for others to say that it's about self confidence or that a nice body can cancel out my face, but apparently not. This has been going on since I was 12 years old. I will be 29 in September. After years of this from different people, I don't think so, especially since I work at my appearance.

[Opinion Owner]

I think the main problem isn't that I am ugly, but my face is extremely masculine looking. I have very masculine features. The only thing pretty about my face are my eyes. I've actually been considering getting a nose job to see if that helps a little. My nose is huge, but also my jawline is very masculine too.

In my opinion, I actually probably would have made a better looking guy. I look exactly like my father (he's dead now, but I have pictures of him from my age) and I've heard many people say he was a good looking man.

[Shyguy_1988]

As nice as that sounds its just not reality. Same goes with how girls look at guys, sorry but human nature is to look for attraction.

[GreatnessPersonified]

My human nature makes me like thick women, they turn me on.
If they don't for you, it's all good.

[Shyguy_1988]

When have I specified what attraction is to you or anyone! Do you find obese women attractive? Everyone has a different opinion. I find some girls that are bigger in size attractive to, but for the most part I like smaller girls that are skinny but have a shape.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Sometimes, we have to forgo human nature to better ourselves and to better society. "Survival of the Fittest" is a weak policy for humanity. "Progress of the Group" is a much stronger and efficient way of progressing.