From chubby to fit :)

[Anonymous]

I plan on working my butt of (literally!) for the next two months before school start and from then on because I want to be really healthy. I wouldn't say I'm fat just a little chubby in some areas but I am only around 5'3 so its looks kinda...ya know lol. Mostly due to the dreaded freshman year of college weight gain :/ so now this year starts a new year and I plan on being fit for it. I want to go back and have people notice. (do guys notice when a girl loses weight?) Guys never really payed too much attention to me I've been kinda the BFF. What happens now when the guys that wouldn't give you the time of day before start coming around? My theory is if they wouldn't talk to me before to not talk to them now...it that a good method? I want someone that wants me no matter what I look like. For some reason I think ill be sad if guys give me attention because they never did before so it will prove the are superficial...do you follow this? lol help...

[Tamikaze]

Guys are not superficial for what they are attracted to. You cannot tell me you are attracted to any guy that walks in front of you. You, like everyone, have physical turn-ons and turn-offs. And honestly, your weight would not keep every guy around from talking to you or considering you as a partner. Men prefer all different types of figures, not just skinny girls. More likely it would be either your lack of confidence based on how you feel about your weight or just that you do not know how to make eye contact and hold conversations with guys. Trust me, if you think you are going to suddenly make yourself over this summer and next year the guys will be beating down your door, you will be disappointed. There is a lot more to mating and dating than someone's weight.

[blahblahblah99]

Your problem is extremelly ironic. You say your arnt fat so I pressume your healthy. Which leaves me to believe that the only reason you want to lose weight is for people to notice like you said. You say you want to be noticed but you think it will be sad if guys give you more attention? My question is why lose the weight in the first place? Yes guys notice when a girl loses weight and I know that's why you want to do it. But remember when guys notice you on the outside it makes it easier for us to get to know you on the inside. I know that sounds like guys are superficial but hey for the most part they are.